By HanBroman - 17/03/2014 08:05 - Australia - Sydney
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Op here, I know the doctors right. It's something I'd suspected for a while but I guess I was in denial. before it happens it feels nice, like I'm getting really close and then BAM all the pleasure stops and is replaced by frustration and sensitivity until i have to ask him to stop because it's so unpleasant. (I've tried pushing on and eventually it goes numb) and this is predominantly from clitoral stimulation. internally i feel even less. I've tried everything. vibrators, special lube, oral (which I actually hate), all kinds of things. I have an extremely supportive boyfriend who is willing to try absolutely anything but nothing helps and it's been a year since we became sexually active. it's become very hard for me to get turned on now since I find there's nothing to look forward to about sexual activity.
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nannyRayRay
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This sounds similar to a male condition I have heard about (some king had it). I hope it is treatable!
King Louis XVI had a condition where it hurt to get erections, perhaps that's who you mean?
Try clitoral stimulation.
she replied that clitoral stimulation is the same
tehdarkness
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Ya this sounds dicey. Try clitoral orgasams.
sucks to be you.
There are certain areas around and on the clit that can produce exactly the response you describe even in people who have no issues. Try to keep the pressure less direct and do not pull back lips or tissue to expose the ******** itself. That will make things less intense and should help with your tolerance and sensitivity. ********** using only your fingers- while alone - just explore and you just might find that certain angles and different types of pressure make a big difference. Focus on relaxing. The physical part of an ****** is very close to a muscle spasm. Muscle spasms usually cause an automatic response to tighten up around the area and fight it (leading to muscle cramping) since most spasms are the result of injury or overexertion. The spasm itself is usually painless - if you can relax and allow the muscle to spasm without engaging your automatic response to make it stop then you will have a better experience.
I feel bad for you, it is supposed to be pleasurable, but I guess you need to find out / figure out where to stop so you still feel satisfied without the actual ******.
OP, I had the same issue... clitoral stimulation was an issue, and penetrative might as well not have existed because I felt nothing pleasant at all. Are you on any medications? My problem turned out to be due to that. I stopped the medication and I'm fine now.
May I ask what kind of medication it was? I'm not on anything but contraceptives, but if it's to do with that...
I'm also on contraceptives. I've stopped them a month ago just to see how things changed, and it actually helped the build up and a I'm able to enjoy the ****** a tiny bit more before it turns to pain and sensitivity and stuff
I don't know if this helps but it sounds like, the blood trapped in the clitoral tissue that causes the build-up isn't getting the sudden release that it is supposed to when you ******. This would cause the tissue to stay erect and there sensitive and painful when unaroused. I would suggest maybe checking for some kind of circulation issue if you aren't getting anywhere with your gyno
Ahah, well it must be other ways ?
How awful! I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
Oh god that's terrible... I'm so sorry ):
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How would the doctor know whether you're having an ****** or not? Is he the one having sex with you? Time for... 1. 2nd opinion 2. Discussion with partner 3. Sex appliances 4. ???? 5. Profit!!!
Well that's unfortunate OP.