Who's Christina?
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By Anonymous - 31/07/2013 16:49 - United States - Pleasanton
To all these people saying "dump him" and "cheater". What if he actually isn't cheating and is telling the ******* truth? What if he doesn't want it to complicate his shit at work? So what if he is a gutless pussy. He could be innocent.
That comment was so horrible that I can't tell if you're naive, stupid, or trolling. I have never seen a workplace where telling people you have a GF makes things "weird". The only reason a guy would do that is so he can get some pussy on the side. Also, a "work buddy" would not be texting a guy late at night instructing him to "come over". But even if he's innocent (which is laughably naive), being a "gutless pussy" is grounds for breaking up. A "gutless pussy" is insecure, jealous, and lacks a backbone, and makes a piss poor bf. tl;dr You're an idiot. Don't give out relationship advice, ever.
I would text back and say "Sorry this is his girlfriend and he's busy with me, but I can assure you that in about twenty minutes he will have PLENTY of time to come over. Just make sure you have room for his suitcases."
Him refusing to tell anyone he has a girlfriend ESPECIALLY an attractive coworker should be a big clue.
I hoped you already dumped his worthless ass. Your [ex]-bf was trying to get the best of both worlds by keeping you secret while living a double life at work. Both you and Christina deserve much better than a guy who can't be completely honest to the both of you. Also, your bf is a total retard. He hid your relationship so things wouldn't get "weird" at work? If you have sex with a co-worker, it's guaranteed that work will be "weird" from that point, especially now that you know he's cheating. From personal experience, co-worker relationships almost NEVER work out and it's awkward working with all that sexual tension.
he's sooo cheating on u! dump the loser!
Reply to the girl yourself and say, "We've been together for 2 years, don't be a home wrecker."
He is a player. You could text her back and tell her you are his girlfriend, but he will just go back and lie to her the way he does you. If Christina does not know about you Op then she is also a victim of his lies. I would go to his work introduce yourself and see what her reaction is. Maybe you two can gang up on that two timer and put him in his place. If she did know about you and was texting him anyways then she is a homewrecker and needs to be put in her place. Either way he is a loser.
He wishes, but don't, OP!
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Dump him now, once a cheater, always a cheater
You tell her he has a girlfriend, see what happens