By TheDenmarkian - 04/08/2015 21:40 - United States - Wickliffe

Today, the girl I've loved for years kissed me. Then she started crying and wiping her mouth, and had a panic attack. I had to help her through it, tell her that it was no big deal, and that it would never happen again. FML
I agree, your life sucks 26 599
You deserved it 2 331

TheDenmarkian tells us more.

Unfortunately, she said she has no idea why she kissed me. She said she is confused and doesn't know, and I told her to think about it. She said she just didn't know, but it was probably to test the waters. She did enjoy the kiss, if that makes up for anything.

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Declare your love for her and tell her the day she kissed you was the best day of your life, don't hide it. Maybe she feels the same and didn't want to lose you as a friend, hence why she panicked.

OP is such good kisser he leaves bitches in tears...

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amileah13 26

That's definitely not awkward at all. Nope. Not. At. All.

Thanks for pointing out the obvious anecdote this FML was trying to tell

amileah13 26

I was being sarcastic, I guess people couldn't see that. And just pointing out the obvious because some people just can't see it. *shrugs*

I'm really sorry op but maybe if you help her through her panic attacks you and her can be close friends

Ah yes, the dreaded friendzone. Every guy's worst nightmare.

bad_boyfriend 10

This might be the saddest thing I have read on here.

Declare your love for her and tell her the day she kissed you was the best day of your life, don't hide it. Maybe she feels the same and didn't want to lose you as a friend, hence why she panicked.

I agree. I think OP should just be honest with her. I once was in love with my best friend. She knew, but we were still great friends, so you may still get to have her in your life.

Well if it was a bad panic attack bringing it up probably isn't the best idea, just shrug it off and act straight and you may get another kiss.

OP is such good kisser he leaves bitches in tears...

1dvs_bstd 41

He probably works at britches and hose.

Did your breath smell bad or are you a bad kisser...?

Ooooooor maybe she just has bad anxiety... ?

Thank you #35. I couldn't agree more. It doesn't take to much to send someone that has a Panic or Anxiety Disorder. I get them at times and they happen over the slightest but of fear, stress, and a lot more.

Awe that was really sweet of you to help her through it! And you know what they say, great relationships are usually based off of good friendships and maybe after this she will see what a kind person you are and maybe her feelings will start to change? Either way that was great of you and good luck!! Remember you deserve to be happy too

Honestly, anyone can do better than a girl who does that. If u still like her tho, tell her and maybe she'll say sorry and u guys can start over.

So what a girl who had or has panic attacks don't deserve love because of that? That's incredibly ignorant. Maybe instead of looking down on them you could maybe be compassionate and try to help? And then maybe they won't have them anymore or have then less often? It's not like the person wants to have them, and it's people like you who make them feel bad about it

14 so we ignore ops feelings? SHE kissed HIM and then freaks and wipes her mouth? right in front of him. that's terrible

Maybe, 21, it wasn't until after the kiss she went into a panic attack because she realized "oh my god I just kissed him" and all of the what ifs came out like for instance what if he didn't like it? What if he didn't want me to kiss him at all? What if he doesn't like me like that? Maybe he never told her how he fells about her so not knowing they felt the same threw her in this downward spiral. There are so many things that could have gone through her head...... You have no idea what could have set that off.

Awe op, you're such a sweetheart. Take the advice of others here and let her know how you feel. I wish you the best of luck.