By kitty91 - 03/03/2014 01:14 - United States - Albuquerque
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Why does everyone just assume we're not close friends? She's actually one of my best friends. I hadn't seen her in a while because I was out of the country and I knew she would be ok with me rubbing her belly because with her first pregnancy she always wanted me to touch her belly. It would've been awkward if she hadn't burst out laughing. We ended laughing so hard at my stupidity that we cried.
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It takes time for women to get their body back after a pregnancy. Sounds like a funny moment to me, one that you could have easily explained.
You are so young and SO naive!
Not one woman who has been through pregnancy will find it funny.
Life goes on. You can sit around crying cause someone mistook you for being pregnant, or you can move the **** on.
Better safe than sorry! Oh wait.
You havent seen them in a while but felt the urge to rub their stomach?
I find it a little weird how people assume it's alright to touch a pregnant woman's stomach, especially without asking. You wouldn't just touch someone's stomach randomly, why do it when they're pregnant?!
I am terrified of this happening once I decide to start having kids! I don't want random strangers asking me questions about when I'm due and trying to touch me. I might just have to be a hermit once I start showing.
Thank goodness someone agrees with me that it's super messed up that this total invasion of a woman's personal space is considered normal.
the worst part is working at a convenience store for me. most of my customers are very regular and I've worked there for three years, so they ALL think they can touch my belly whenever they want. I just wanna scream sometimes.
36 when I was pregnant with my son I had the same fear, surprisingly no strangers ever tried to touch me. Now what does happen is when he's in the shopping cart people will just touch him and make stupid baby talk to a toddler who ignores it all.
There are t-shirts online that say "If you didn't put it there, don't touch it." With an arrow pointing down. Get one if those!
#36, I always had complete strangers asking me when I was due, what the name/sex was, even if I was going to deliver naturally and if I was going to breast feed, very personal stuff! I can not understand why strangers thought this was appropriate, or why they even wanted to know. It's very weird how some people feel that normal social conduct apparently doesn't apply to pregnant women!
I didn't just assume it would be ok to touch her stomach. She's been one of my best friends for 10 years and with her first pregnancy she always wanted me to touch her stomach all the time so I wasn't just being an ass.
Still, OP, you should have maybe asked before rubbing her belly. But at least she was okay with it.
You've known her for 10 years and didn't know when she was due?
You would be amazed how often that happens when you're pregnant. Complete strangers suddenly think they have a right to put their hands on your body.
Are you sure she's still your friend?
YDI for thinking it's ok to randomly rub the belly of someone you're obviously not that close to. If anybody tries doing that to me when I eventually get pregnant, I'm gonna rub their belly right back, if they think that that's an acceptable thing to do to people without asking first.
They're actually best friends, you ass. 'Obviously not close to' WROOONG!
Ugh, when I was pregnant random people would always rub my belly. I hated it. Sorry, but you should of thought that through a little more OP.
Who does this, seriously? That was way rude.
Seriously. One of my best friends is pregnant, and I still asked before I touched her belly. It's common courtesy!
what on earth made you think it was okay to touch another person like that? Would you like it if people just randomly came up and rubbed your stomach?
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You havent seen them in a while but felt the urge to rub their stomach?
I find it a little weird how people assume it's alright to touch a pregnant woman's stomach, especially without asking. You wouldn't just touch someone's stomach randomly, why do it when they're pregnant?!