I think it's a bit pedofilic to want your partner to be shaved. It's just not natural for a grown up man or women to be lacking of pubic hair. If you want to trim your bush it's fine by me, but shaving it all of is just a sick ideal which shouldn't be encouraged. Second of all it's unhealthy and can lead to fungalinfection and/or urinalinfection.

to #299 and tons of others: little girls don't have armpit hair, yet women shave all that off. leg hair too. how is pubic hair any different? i'm not trying to encourage it, but saying that it's sick and calling it pedofilic is rediculous. personally i would say a little landing strip or something. also i think both guys and girls should do at least some trimming.

To everyone saying "suck it up and shave it, it's not THAT hard": Not EVERYONE's body reacts to things the same way others' do. It's been said here multiple times, but still I'm seeing comments about that. **** off and go learn a little more about people and how we're not CLONES (most of us). I'm starting to wonder if I'm the only one who even likes body hair anymore. On guys, I think the sexiest damn thing is a beard. Not to mention I love chest and underarm hair. But that just goes to show that preferences do exist in this world. I think it's pretty disgusting when guys refuse to tend to you just because of some hair. If his face is submerged in it then I can sympathize, but LAWD FORBID a woman's body working the way it's supposed to. FBYL for neither of you waiting long enough or bothering to discuss it before hittin' the sack.

something i would say

don't expect girls to shave if they never get head

Agreed. Hairy muff is horrid.

If you want to sleep with him, you'll shave. If you don't want to shave, find someone else.

Shaving is a personal choice. Personally I don't see what the deal is with hair unless you're going to eat them out. It's just...hair.

Very funny and for those who say the skin is too sensitive will find the skin will toughen up if they continue to shave/wax it. And for those who say to tell him to get lost, well good luck finding a guy who really wants full grown 1970's bush in 2009. If you ever want to get laid you gotta shave that shit or at least ask the guy his preference or maybe don't sleep with someone you don't know or who is a total prick, ya, this is totally your fault.

If nothing else, get some clippers and at least shave it. Personally, I feel it's my duty to help the guy out, and keep the plate nice and clean for whoever is coming over for dinner. Just sayin.