Chuck E. Cheese awaits

By mama’s boy - 31/10/2019 00:01

Today, I realized just how spoiled and immature my boyfriend is when I asked him several times what he’d like for dinner. Getting no answer, I made steak, potatoes and salad. He then sulked and refused to eat it, since he wanted spaghetti and meatballs instead. FML
I agree, your life sucks 2 296
You deserved it 404

Same thing different taste

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Ambrily 27

I wouldn't put up with this, honestly.

oneonta 8

what fool would reject steak?????

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icalledhisname 12

His behavior is most likely not going to improve with time. People that immature tend to have that immaturity as a personality trait. Consider leaving the relationship before it gets harder to do so. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. Not only is he immature, he’s ungrateful and takes you for granted. He should have praised the awesome dinner you made. You deserve better.

That’s when you take his plate away and tell him. To make it himself otherwise there bread and peanut butter in the kitchen. Then you just stop making dinner for him

So one time my middle son decided he didn't want to eat what the rest of us were having (He picked this up from his spoiled cousin). So I asked him if he wanted Spaghetti instead. Sensing victory he said "Yeah make me spaghetti", looking as smug as a 12yo can. So I boiled up some ramen noodles, covered them in Catsup, slapped it in front of him and said "I said I'd make you Spaghetti, I didn't say I'd make you GOOD Spaghetti." Made him eat every bit of it. It stayed in his gut for about 10 minutes. Man-child needs some Spaghetti.

Did your mind reading abilities stop working? That sucks.👾

Great, and he can now start cooking for himself.

My ex bf used to be a horrifically picky eater as a kid/teenager. As soon as he turned like 12 or 13 his mom stopped cooking for him if he wasn't going to eat the family meal. So he made his own food almost all the time since then.

I feel like this is fine honestly. One of the things I've seen other parents do that never made sense to was assign ages to certain foods. "Oh well the only reason my kid doesn't like (x) food is because they're a kid" Nope the kid is now an adult and they still don't like that food. Because shocker they don't like that food. If the parents are constantly making meals that the kid doesn't like and both sides are cool with the kid making their own meals that seems like a perfectly good arrangement. As I got older I took over a lot of my own stuff. Doing my own laundry, cleaning my own room, washing my own dishes. By the time I moved out on my own I had all of the skills necessary to maintain my own apartment.

Straight up this is beyond spoiled. This is passive aggressive abusive douche baggery. When a child does this it's spoiled when an adult does this they know better. My ex-best friend did this kind of bullshit to my current best friend AKA his ex-girlfriend. He'd purposefully do this kind of shit and then act like she was the one that ****** up.

tounces7 27

Took you this long to realize it?

I hope you didn’t cook him spaghetti and meatballs just to make him happy, I do really hope that you made him cook it himself because you worked hard on making delicious steak, mashed potatoes and salads for both of you and he flipping rejects it!

Sounds like he can make his own dinner or eat what you cooked.