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By gottacatchemall - 08/01/2014 05:43 - United States

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Today, I tried to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year. We're almost twenty. In the end, we both chickened out and played Pokémon instead. FML
I agree, your life sucks 66 854
You deserved it 29 010

Same thing different taste

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Much more fun and less painful :) but don't worry about it, maybe it just wasn't the right time. You guys will get there, OP :)

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toxic_walrus 15
skittyskatbrat 19

That's just...adorable :) And if you aren't ready, you aren't ready. Never make yourselves do something you aren't ready for...and you didn't! Congrats to you both on not feeling pressured to "have" to do something. And instead doing something you DO enjoy. The world needs more people like that! That's no FML, that's a "For The Win!"

That's okay (: better to not do anything if you're not ready

haha. at least you didn't have like an awkward moment of just sitting there afterwards!!

It's okay OP. We've been led to believe that sex is the end all and be all and so it can be quite nerve wracking when you start out because you're scared that it won't live up to expectations. It's honestly far better to wait until you're 100% ready and there's no need to rush. Don't think that you have to lose it now just because you're nearly 20. There's nothing wrong with waiting a little longer.

DasHaas 9

Being respectful of yourself and your partner to just not go through with it isn't chickening out... doing it despite both of you not really being ready for it, because you somehow feel you "have to", that would be chickening out. Never be scared to say what you feel, and act on what think should be.

poisongirl708 11

Nothing wrong with chickening out. It would be best to just talk about it and wait for when the time is right. :) And for god's sake, be safe and smart about it. We already have too many dumb people trying to breed.