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By gottacatchemall - 08/01/2014 05:43 - United States

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Today, I tried to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year. We're almost twenty. In the end, we both chickened out and played Pokémon instead. FML
I agree, your life sucks 66 854
You deserved it 29 010

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Much more fun and less painful :) but don't worry about it, maybe it just wasn't the right time. You guys will get there, OP :)

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No need to rush it when neither of the two of you are ready.

waiting is ok, but seriously having sex isn't something to fear either

That's actually really cute. Don't be in a rush. Plus, anticipation builds pleasure

I wish I could play pokemon with my boyfriend!!!

your bf sounds lame. seriously who doesn't like pokemon??

You guys sound like the cutest couple ever.

Sounds awesome. If it really bothers you, try again, but if your both so chill about not doing it, it's so immaterial that you shouldn't even bother if it bothers you that much. Your and your boyfriend sound ******* awesome OP, good luck.

There's nothing wrong with not being ready. There it no age limit on your virginity.

Stop treating the first time as an object you can lose. You are missing out on having a lot of fun and becoming closer to a man you obviously like.

Don't worry about it, OP. :) The first time my now-husband and I decided to do the deed, we both chickened-out too and we were around your age (I'm 25 now) and didn't try again for a long time... You'll know when you are ready. As cliche as that sounds, deadset, it's true. I believe that sex shouldn't be for those under the age of 18 anyway. Adults should be doing adult things... Not kids (this is coming from the fact that my younger sister had her first child at FOURTEEN. My god. )