If you can't talk openly about your sex life to the very person you're having sex with, then you most certainly should not be having sex. It's important to be open and honest about sex with your partner. It prevents STDs, prevents pregnancy, and helps you both to be satisfied. If he doesn't know he should be working on something how can you ever expect it to get better.

YDI much?!?!!!!

So much for honesty! When he figures out you lied about it he'll be very disappointed. His reaction to knowing he never gave an ****** would hurt his pride less than knowing you lied about you faking it.

And this is why you shouldn't fake. He wanted you to be honest with him, he wanted to know if he really was pleasing you, you didn't have to say every time, but you should have said you did, so that he knows there's something more he needs to do. Or something more you need to do, sometimes the fault can lie with the woman and her mind frame.

Any chick who says she has never faked one, lied. Plain and simple.

You definitely deserve what you get if you're going to lie to him. Here's what you do though: give it a couple weeks so he doesn't connect any of this, and then tell him you have some ideas for things he can do to help you get off faster/stronger. Then tell him what to do, and hopefully he'll give you one for real this time. Keep pushing him in the right direction (sometimes literally) and eventually you won't need to fake anymore. Then you can forget this whole thing ever happened. All that said, this is what you should have been doing all along, without the lying.

I say the next time you're in bed coach him what to do so you can get some pleasure out of it.

if he doesn't know, how can he get any better? YDI

Or find someone better...

I told my last bf the same thing, I lied. he never gave me an ****** during sex. you shouldn't lie about it, he's just gonna keep doing the same moves thinking that he's pleasing you. tsk tsk.