My mom did that to me once. Except she was at a work meeting (which she works at a bar), and it just so happened to be the last day to sign up for my classes.

I was actually looking for the LIKE button on this..

as a guy that formerly attended aa meetings, those things made me want to drink myself to death, plus almost always I saw the people there right after coming out of the meeting going to the nearest gas station for a 12 pack of beer...

I would have zero idea why people would vote YDI on this . This is by far most one of the heartbreaking FYL stories . I hope things will change for your op .:/

Trust me dear, if the person that has the addiction to the substance in question is not truly ready, they won't benefit from it. It very well could be a relapse, but don't let it get to you that much. Be very supportive, encourage her to go again if you want to but don't be pushy. And don't make the same mistakes I did..Yelling at her/causing fights with her won't help. Calmness is key when it comes to these things. I wish you and your mother the VERY best!!

Support her as much as you can but always remember to put yourself first.

why would you need to tell her to come home? do you control your parents?

This is literally how my mom is, you're not alone man