Food fight

By hss - 30/05/2011 01:59 - United States

Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML
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HeaRTs_Girl 0

No matter how you spin it, this situation is just ******* sad. Good luck, assholes.

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herrobear 0

You asked him to help you lose weight at some point. He agreed. That means he has to do his job and encourage you to lose weight, even when you say you give up.

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nocanhaz 4

Look at it this way; It isn't fat, it's insulation.

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Foxlovehoney 0

Dump the chump! You don't deserve to be treated like that; no one does! Find someone who loves you the way you are, for who you are! There are people out there who aren't so superficial & judgmental who will love you for what's in your heart, not what size you are! Good luck & God bless!

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Senseisparky 0

Yeah! Settle on someone who is equally fat, who doesn't challenge you in any area of life and doesn't give a shit about your wellbeing. Make sure they are addicted to drugs, are fat, has bad hygene and a poor education! What? If your partner can't have standards why should you?

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ReynshineCutting 10

He's not treating her bad. He's trying to help her. He most likely does love her the way she is (or he wouldn't be with her) but wants her to be healthier. My fiancé does similar stuff to me because he wants me to be healthier so that I'll live longer for him and our kids. It has absolutely nothing to do with physical appearance. He's attracted to me like crazy even though I'm overweight. It's about health and longevity of life, not looks.

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MagicMarker 0

Refusing to let her spend her own money the way she wants and making snide comments about her appearance isn't "treating her bad"? Wow. That sure as hell isn't any type of "help" I'd want. The OP needs to get out of the relationship now, before he graduates from controlling, emotionally abusive behavior to physical violence.

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ReynshineCutting 10

The comment he made (if he was serious) wasn't good, but when you're about to get married you spend money together. She asked for him to help her and he was. His last comment if he was serious was uncalled for, but he may have been kidding. My fiancé says stuff like that to me kidding around. If he wasn't kidding then there's still no reason to just dump him. They're engaged. There's a level of commitment so you don't just up and leave (unless he's cheating or beating). You work things out. Something like this is not grounds for breaking up unless it's an ongoing thing that he refuses to change or acknowledge.

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JenL_fml 7

You set yourself up. He just wants to help.

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skyeyez9 24

You will never lose weight until you decide you are tired of being fat and want to lose weight.

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RKD 23

Your bf sounds like a major douche, at least, that was a very douchious comment for him to make-he probably just wanted something else to eat and it didn't have anything to do with your weight-you have to weigh it out whether he is worth keeping or not-but congrats on trying to lose weight and don't give up-you can do it-I had to lose a bunch last year!

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Btreasure 8

I wouldve said BITCH then let's see you pay! yeah that's what I thought. now shutup so I can enjoy all 7 of my cheeseburgers, my steak, both of my porkchops, AND my salad.

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penguinazul 13

I'm usually one who stands up for the fat kids since I'm one myself, but honey, you can't ask someone to help you lose weight and then get pissed when they actually do what you asked them to do. Obviously he chose you already knowing you were overweight, so it's not like your weight is that big of an issue to him. Contrary to popular belief, not all guys are superficial. However, he wants you to be happy, and you're obviously not so he's willing to do whatever it takes to get you to be happy! If you keep up the attitude you have, he won't dump you because you're fat, he'll dump you because you being miserable all the time will make him miserable too, and no one wants that. The end.

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mhorger 0

so was your complaint worded like this: Let me MOOOOOO eat what I want! MOOOOOO I'm hungry... fried chicken MOOOOOO, ice cream, some MOOOOOO philly cheesesteak, MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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