Howdydoodelly, doucherino!

OP i find myself commending you for your honesty but it was the wrong place to do it. You seem like a nice enough guy so Im pretty sure it was a case of opening your mouth before your brain caught up. Happens to the best of us. I hope the relationship is salvagable. From reading this site I have discovered that for a small number of the commenters woman seem to be ***** if they are having sex but if they dont have sex then they are a prude. please make up your minds.

Call her a bitch and piss on her lawn.

Am I the only one who thinks it IS rude (and somewhat dumb) to say "hey I thought we were going to have sex!" but that does NOT really make OP a pervert? Of course he wants to have sex with her, he wouldn't date her otherwise. And no, I do not mean that dating is all about sex. But you don't date someone you don't find attractive.

YDI. It sounds like she isn't even your gf, or it's on your first few dates and she was just trying to be nice and get to know you better and be more comfortable with you. It was rude she kicked you out.. but you probably made her feel embarrest. Just go with the flow next time..

I love when people get mad at people for being honest and not leading them on and then get mad again when people lead them on and not be honest about what they want

I'm willing to bet this "couple" has only had two or three dates and she just wanted to take things slowly, but this guy thinks sex is only off limits until you've officially become a couple. YDI

I don't see how hot coffee and dessert sound sexual, and it does not seem she is your girlfriend but rather a girl you had a few dates with.

its guys like you who give us all a bad name

YDI for assuming she'll open her legs on your second date