a real man always pays for the meal especially on a date! it's disrespectful to make the gal pay

Men are not what they used to be...Once, I went on a date with my boyfriend and while we were eating he told me "by the way, I've forgotten my wallet..." and another time, we went to the cinema . The ticket cost 9€ and I couldn't pay with my credit card under 13€, so my boyfriend told me "ok so buy me my ticket too and I'll pay off you!" guess who never did...

so what if u paid? u ate too bitch

Oh no. Never go on a date with him again. That is just uncivilized. FYL.

I'm a girl and 100% agree with you :) OP is probably one that is stuck with old traditions, where boys should pay and do eveything :S

I have pulled this too it's when you get fixed up with. a girl you don't really have any intrest in

if he paid $5 then all you had to pay is $15... That doesn't sound like very much to me. And pft, should have decided about paying before hand... Plus just dump him if it bothers you.

he needa get his money right before he starts dating whether he asked her or she asked him...

Dump Mr No Money. It will start off with not paying for dates, eat all your food in your house, then he will want to borrow your car (without filling it back up with gas when he's done), move in with you but not pay rent. He Sounds like a mooch.

he/she could be at school or library? dingding!