Grab the balls by the horn, dude

By Anonymous - 09/09/2019 18:00

Today, the only girl I've ever had eyes for said she can't find any good single men, all while sitting next to me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 512
You deserved it 556

Same thing different taste

Comments

she doesn't owe you anything just cos you fancy her

orz Why do people not speak up when they like someone? There are ways of doing it without it being awkward after. Unless if she’s turned you down before because she doesn’t feel the same, then ydi.

Well it would seem either you are not a "good single man" or that you haven't manned-up and made your interest in her known. Pick one and do something about it.

Dude, seriously, ask her out. Keep it simple, like; 'Would you have coffee with me sometime?'. She can't see inside your head, you know.

I think the problem is that you are putting this girl on a pedestal. She is just as human as you, looking for someone who will make her happy. She has exactly the same fears and insecurities as you. Do you think you have the ability to make her happy? If 'Yes', ask her out on a date. If you are scared to speak, you could even write her a little note. Make it original but keep it simple.

Reggie89 2

you got stuck in the friend zone

I legitimately hate people like you. Typically male you complain that she doesn’t “see you” when why would they see you that way? Especially when you make yourself their friends thinking that will make them love you when in reality women are not machines you put friendship tokens in until you think they should notice you. Make it known you want to be romantically involved.