That is what I would call, bad timing.

Hi OP! Guess what? That was the bet gift he could ever give you! Better you know now and can get on with your life. Set up support and whatever visitation is ordered and get on with the business I living. I'm a single mom of 4. I would much prefer raising them alone than with their horrid excuse of a human bio father. Life is good! It will be for you, too. I promise.

You should have gotten married first and then you wouldn't have this problem

I can see how this can be very difficult for you, but I`ll tell you this. My father broke up with my mother a short while after I was born. During my childhood, I really felt the absence of a male figure in my life but it was OK, I was raised by my mother and grandmother. Years later, during my teens, I found out that my father had another child with a woman. He was also an alcoholic that had a habit of beating up that woman in front of their child. So all in all, I am glad that things turned out the way they did, because if my father would have stayed married with my mother, chances are my mother would''ve been in the same situation as that poor woman. Also think about it, your boyfriend is clearly not mature and responsible enough to take care of his child, seeing that he broke up with you when you were 9 months pregnant with his baby.

Screw him >:(

Omg I'm so sorry....

i loled at the comments of all the losers talking about keeping him out of the room just because they broke up doesnt make him a piece of shit maybe he was extremly unhappy we know whos single if not i really do feel for you're partners i would run if i was them

That really sucks. That's one of my fears as well. I'm in my 7th month of pregnancy, and even though my boyfriend is supportive now, I don't know if that'll change. I believe he loves me and will stay with me through all of this, but nothing is ever certain. And if the child is his, OP could've prevented him from being in the delivery room. Giving birth is stressful enough without having someone in there who most likely will cause more stress. The mother-to-be has absolute say in who is and who isn't allowed in the room. I hope everything went well and that you and the baby are doing good, and you both are healthy.

Um.. ._. That's one hell of a situation.

So..., is the baby his? How long have you known each other before you got pregnant? If the baby isn't his, than he was just being reasonable.