How red are these flags?

By Anonymous - 25/07/2024 07:00 - United States

Today, I'm in a situation where I'm in a relationship, but he doesn't talk to me at all. He love-bombed me at first, and now I'm not sure how to even talk to him. I hardly know anything about him. I wanna break up but we got together like two months ago. FML
I agree, your life sucks 144
You deserved it 550

Same thing different taste

Top comments

1. that's exactly a reason to break up with someone! 2. this sounds like people with the dating experience of middle schoolers. just break up. it's not that serious.

If he is that disinterested in your happiness that he doesn't put effort into keeping channels of communication open, you have every right, and every obligation to yourself, to break up with him. It's not going to get any easier, you have already wasted 2 months of your life. Don't waste any more.

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1. that's exactly a reason to break up with someone! 2. this sounds like people with the dating experience of middle schoolers. just break up. it's not that serious.

If he is that disinterested in your happiness that he doesn't put effort into keeping channels of communication open, you have every right, and every obligation to yourself, to break up with him. It's not going to get any easier, you have already wasted 2 months of your life. Don't waste any more.

yes. it's only been 2 months. why waste any more time? you gotta be in middle school. go do your homework

Just block his number and socials, and move on.

No, ghosting is not OK. AT least break up, but do break up.

rpy13 11

Um… you’re not in a relationship, fyi. How can anyone be this delusional 😂

Underscore_foo 4

What age are you for real? it’s been 2 months. Break up with him and move on, you won’t feel sad about it.

"He love bombed me to get his leg over and now he's had his fun he's not even slightly interested in me and I'm not sure if I should dump him". Seriously, just dump him and don't go out with anyone else until you've had a long, hard look at your self esteem issues. You sound fairly young so a period of genuine self reflection and a little mental renovation will make future relationships better for you.