oh there a 3rd option : she could just have the charisma to know how to talk to people to get them. #38 you have a really narrow mind if you think only skinny, rich or ***** can get guys. oh and let me know when t-shirts, and jeans, and skirts that go to the knee or longer makes a person a ****.

**** that, eat what you want and **** the rest. Skinny chicks like that are aways trying to please others and feel good about themselves even at the expense of others (such as in your case). "Lose your gut and you will be a happier person" lol... its shit like that which makes girls develop eating disorders and wreck their body when they're just fine the way they are.

Bull. Skinny has so little to do with getting guys. I was never skinny. I was always curvy. I used to believe all the crap about having to be skinny to get a man until I made myself sick. Luckily I learned to love my curves and you know what? I found out that once I got my self esteem up I had no problems getting dates. I dated rich guys, poor artists, models, CEOs and everything in between. Until I got married I NEVER had a problem finding a date. The real secret to finding love is to work on being healthy and learning to love and accept your self with confidence.

your saying exactly what i was saying :P

Its so true. Honestly its confidence and charisma that matter. I am thin, but more often than not I'm told "I like you, its so easy to talk to you. You aren't like other girls." Its more about personality and loving ourselves, which we should do at ANY size. And guys who only like girls for their size are shallow pricks anyhow. I would much rather date a nice guy than an attractive model type.