Kinda sus behavior

By dumped and dusted - 13/07/2016 17:35 - United States

Today, three weeks after my girlfriend told me she was pregnant, she admitted it was a lie. Turned out it was just a test to see if I'd break up with her or not. I didn't, but I did just break the bank buying all the things we'd need for an actual kid. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Good for you for making the right decision and sticking by your child. However she is a lying bitch and doesn't deserve a guy like you. Put that bitch on the curb and move on.

was everything non refundable? Seems easy enough to just bring it back.

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You should wait 3 months at least before buying things, because of possible miscarriages... But since it was a lie, it was a bitch move not saying anything while you were buying things.

good on u for sticking around but buying ahead of what 6 month earlier for what?

At first I pitied you, but then I realized that you did that months and months before the child was supposed to be born. That's just not good thinking. Don't break the bank. You have nine months. Slowly collect the stuff you need! You put yourself in debt by not thinking.

Are you calling him an idiot or her? And depending how many stores he went to it could be a major hassle to get all the receipts together and go to all that stores to return it all. Plus take it from someone who's had to return baby stuff it's not easy to do and he could be really hurt by it and it could be really sad for him to go return it all.

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That's really shitty. I hope you learned that when you think you're expecting a kid, you don't buy every item possible for it immediately, because things can happen. Also I hope you left that girlfriend- a person that truly loves you would never dream of violating your trust like that just because they feel insecure.

Tell her you don't appreciate being tested, and that you're disappointed she didn't have enough trust in you to know that you'd stay.

Based off that I'd dump her as quickly as possible, then sell anything you've bought to parents who actually need it.

While that was vile of her, what if - just speculating here - she saw your fatherly efforts and actually wished that she was pregnant, only to have to give up on the thought when her period started?

What your girlfriend did was absolutely horrible. That's a terrible thing to do. I agree with others, though, that you jumped the gun on buying baby stuff when she had just announced her pregnancy. Your intentions were honorable, but most people wait until further along in the pregnancy to buy stuff. I hope you broke up with her.