And anyway, just don't comment on whether this is fake or not. It's somewhere in the rules, stick to it.

The biggest problem I see with this is that you met his wife years ago and you assumed they were still together and that she's the one having the baby. Since you obviously didn't ask him, that seems like a stupidly big assumption to make.

haha ok I picked up a few calls while in labor. One friend even called a few minutes before my son was born. My husband picked up the phone and I had to politely decline.

I hope "first son" means first child at all. It would be better if there weren't children involved in your colleague's divorce.

You were put in a very bad position here. You are not the one who should be embarrassed, and I hope you aren't.

You didn't do anything wrong. Everyone would have assumed the same. Your colleague is a dickface and he deserves what has happened to him.

F the baby's life- his/her parents are both trash.

Believe it or not, you did them both a great service.

f the wife's life, not yours...damn. sucks to be her.

Holy Crap Dude That Sux!!!!