Let's really pick this apart, shall we? "Denying him sex", that's spoken as if you denied him access to an inalienable right: your body. When in fact, the only person who has rights over your body, in any way, is you. And "going to great lengths to emasculate him"....how disturbing. His manhood is staked upon getting sex from his woman. Whether she wants it or not is beside the point, as it's his to take. OP, someone like that is not fit to be anyone's boyfriend or lover, nor get the privilege of enjoying any woman's body. You're sooooo better off without this loser, probably even safer. He might be the type to hit a woman who doesn't give him sex.

is there no room for understanding for your ex bf...

A lot of people are calling him an idiot, but I don't see idiot in this--just a hefty dose of "worthless fuckhead." Your recovery will be smoother without that piece of human garbage dragging behind you. Good luck and hope you feel better soon

You're better off, he sounds like an asshole of epic proportions. Seriously, reading this made me so mad that I'm hoping that I'm somehow telepathically making the asshole slam his face into a concrete wall wherever he is.

Careful with cysts I had one rupture and almost bled to death... I needed to be flown by helicopter for emergency surgery

I'll read between the lines & deduce he was a lousy **** anyway. Get well soon & better luck next boyfriend.

I am so sorry! I have had ovarian cysts before and I can empathize with how bad they hurt. I hope you feel better soon. Focus on feeling better, not on jerks only interested in sex and not your wellbeing.

My sister just got out of the hospital for the same thing she needs to have surgery soon

You're better off, OP. I know it hurts right now, but you'll come to realize that guys like him are not worth your time. There are more understanding people out there, you just have to find one of them. I hope you feel better soon.

wow same thing happened to my sister