Intimacy, Sex, Marriage and Frustration: Not feeling it

Not feeling it

By Anonymous - 20/06/2021 02:01

Today, it’s been over 15 months since I’ve had sex with my fiancé. We’re getting married next month. Now I'm wondering if we’ll have sex at all on our honeymoon. FML

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Denied

By Anonymous - 23/04/2021 23:01

Today, my fiancé decided that we shouldn't have sex before we get married. Even though we've been doing it for years. We can't get married right now due to Covid. FML

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Don't you want me, baby?

By Anonymous - 17/07/2021 00:01

Today, it's been 10 months of a sexless marriage. Also my 10-month wedding anniversary. We waited until marriage, and she hasn't wanted me since. FML

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A tale as old as time

By Anonymous - 19/12/2021 02:01

Today, my wife and I used to have sex at least 5 times a week, but since we said "I DO" at our wedding I’m lucky to get a shag once a month, and you can forget about blowjobs, I’ve not had one since before the wedding. Nothing about our life has changed to cause this, except we’re married now. FML

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Fishy

By Cheated - 05/09/2023 22:00

Today, it’s my honeymoon. I waited patiently for a year and a half to have sex since I respected her “No sex before marriage” rule. However, my new wife has a new rule: “Sex is for procreation and I’m not ready to have children yet.” How much longer should I wait to make love to the one I love now? FML

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Out of order

By HornyWife - 13/06/2020 02:02

Today, I'm on my honeymoon. My husband and I cannot consummate our marriage, because his penis has an open wound due to… vigorous masturbation. FML

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Not interested

By Wrenda Witt - 15/06/2020 14:02

Today, it has officially been two and half months since I've had sex. I've done everything imaginable to entice him, but my boyfriend doesn't seem bothered at all. FML

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Just tradwife things

By Fapmaster - 07/01/2023 03:00

Today, after a year and a half of sticking to my new wife’s “no-sex-before marriage” rule while we dated, she brushed me off while I tried to consummate the marriage. Apparently, she’s not ready to have kids yet and “semen will get the sheets dirty.” Guess I’ll be jerking it on my honeymoon. FML

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By sierra.sl31 - 28/07/2019 22:00

Today, my boyfriend of over a year decided he wants us to wait to get married before having sex again, after we've had sex almost every night of being together. FML

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I need it

By Anonymous - 31/08/2020 06:55 - United Kingdom

Today, my husband and I have such busy careers, we have to schedule sex for when we’re both at home and hopefully not too tired, otherwise we’d never have sex at all. The last time we had sex was on my birthday, in April, and our next appointment is mid September. I really miss sex. FML

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Get it on, son

By Anonymous - 26/11/2023 22:00

Today, I was teasing my son about all the newlywed sex he must be having. He turned bright red and ended up admitting that because they stayed virgins until marriage they were too nervous to try on the wedding night, or on the honeymoon, or anytime since then. The wedding was 4 months ago. FML

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FrankHotpants 31

Sunday 20 June 2021 5:04

I’m going to assume you’ve already asked them about it or expressed your concerns. If not, going through with that is a mistake. If you’re not happy now what makes you think it’ll get better. Resolve it now or hold off.

core01 30

Sunday 20 June 2021 4:55

What you have now is what you'll have after the ceremony. Take a good long think about whether you want this for life.

Comments

Brightside86 30

Sunday 20 June 2021 4:36

This seems really strange, unless it's a religious, or recovery from surgery thing.

core01 30

Sunday 20 June 2021 4:55

What you have now is what you'll have after the ceremony. Take a good long think about whether you want this for life.

FrankHotpants 31

Sunday 20 June 2021 5:04

Wadlaen 23

Sunday 20 June 2021 8:30

Maybe she's saving up, so the honeymoon will be REALLY special (remember that there are people who has never had sex before their honeymoon)😉

Crowned Sataness 12

Sunday 20 June 2021 11:07

unless fiance has a very valid reason that will pass, you would be a fool for going through with it. a sexless marriage will not last. this is not what you signed up for and you will not be happy. better to call it off now then end up cheating/divorced.

red6joker 8

Sunday 20 June 2021 11:53

That's a bad sign.

Jonkbaby 22

Sunday 20 June 2021 13:08

Do you think this is something you can work through? There is no shame in postponing

hope jm 5

Sunday 20 June 2021 14:22

just ask. that is going to be a major issue, so you REALLY need to resolve it before you get married. please

Max Gahmer 3

Sunday 20 June 2021 15:54

Why do people marry others kike this?

Jon Tessler 14

Sunday 20 June 2021 17:41

today it has been close to 2 years since my fiancee and I have had sex. I am on multiple medications for my PTSD and MDD. the side effect of the drugs is it kills my libido. I make sure I do romantic things for my fiancee so she understands that my love for her is as strong as it always has been, even with out the sex. you can be physically intimate without having penetrative sex.