On my own again, naturally

By Anonymous - 08/09/2012 17:27 - United States - Sandy

Today, I got into an argument with my mom over her sexist, emotionally-abusive boyfriend. I told her that either he goes or I go. She called me a disrespectful bastard for not respecting my "new father." I'm now sitting outside a McDonald's with my suitcase, leeching their WiFi. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 807
You deserved it 2 937

Same thing different taste

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jarockstar27 10

I hate it when parents pick the boyfriend/girlfriend over their own children. Its irresponsible and selfish. Im sorry OP i hope things get better.

well I hate to say this, but maybe it is best you got out. If she won't listen, its best you get out of a potentially bad situation.

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Your mom seriously needs a bitch slap to the face. I hope you can find a place to stay.

Lord knows she'll be getting a whole lot more from her new beau.

If she puts up with abuse, she's not in a position to step out -- even if you offer an ultimatum. You have good intentions, but your lack of understanding just cut her out of your life, at least for the time being. You have to let her make her own decision. You can present the options and let her choose. Let her know that you don't support her decision but that you love her. Don't hang around whenever he's there.

sernarules 1

Ive dealt with the same shit for 10 years. If she chooses him over you now she always will. Best advice cut all ties and move on.

Chiikitty6464 2

He can also go live with his grandparents. At least they wont choose anything huge over him

sweetmama88 6

Sorry , I really wish I could help you, I know the feeling.your mother as everything confused, you should come first then the boyfriend .hopefully she will wake up and get her shit together, !

I would not know but isn't it hard to get out of an emotionally destructive relationship, might take your mother some time and you need to be there for her even if she is being a bitch.

I'm sorry OP. I hope your mother learns from her mistake and dumps that bastard. No one should have to live with an abusive partner. She most likely is in denial of what is happening to her. At least you tried, that is more then most people can say.

You probably made the right choice. If she cares about you, she'll eventually try to amend the situation, and if she doesn't, well, you don't need that type of person in your life. So just kinda wait it out for a bit. Or burn the house down. Whichever.

3pi 6

Mothers these days! Sorry op, she will realize she was wrong just wait for it.