On my own again, naturally

By Anonymous - 08/09/2012 17:27 - United States - Sandy

Today, I got into an argument with my mom over her sexist, emotionally-abusive boyfriend. I told her that either he goes or I go. She called me a disrespectful bastard for not respecting my "new father." I'm now sitting outside a McDonald's with my suitcase, leeching their WiFi. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 807
You deserved it 2 937

Same thing different taste

Top comments

jarockstar27 10

I hate it when parents pick the boyfriend/girlfriend over their own children. Its irresponsible and selfish. Im sorry OP i hope things get better.

well I hate to say this, but maybe it is best you got out. If she won't listen, its best you get out of a potentially bad situation.

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Angeon 5

NO LIE SAME SHIT IS HAPPENING TO ME RIGHT NOW!!!

Omg that is soooo sad. I feel sorry for u

TheyCallMeDamien 17

Women date the men they think they deserve.

dear_old_nicki 3

Just said a quick prayer for you. Stay strong. Xoxoxo

Ultimatums never work, they just piss off the person for whom they're intended and put them on the defensive. Seems like your mom is so lonely she's willing to write off "emotionally abusive" as a mere character flaw...sucks you're caught in the middle, but it sounds like F her life more than anything.

lincolnkite 6

One time my parents told me I was going on a vacation, so we drove a long time. They gave me money to get them food at McDonalds and they drove off. Don't worry, life can always get better.

Sorry to say this... but some women are just stupid (and I'm female. Jut saying). My sister had an emotionally abusive boyfriend and she stayed with the loser for two YEARS! stand your ground and when he leaves her (and he WILL ) you can happily rub it in her face.

I feel bad that your now homeless but you did initiate the ultimatum It sucks your Mom would rather stick up for an abusive turd then for her own child.

Wow OP, sorry to hear this.. You mother obviously reached the lower stage of her abusive relationship if she chose her boyfriend over her kid. Kicking you out was very extreme and selfish from her part, she should have tried to work out a solution. Anyway, know that only women with very low self esteem date chauvinist pricks. Let's hope she will realize her mistake on time. I don't know your age but I hope that you have a job to help and maintain you or at least friends / family who can give you a roof for a while. If not, maybe come back home and greet your teeth for a while till you can be outta there. What matters is that you don't live in the streets. Good luck.

Sorry to hear about this o.p. If it's any consolation, I had something similar happen to me. I don't know how old you are, but if you're under 16 you're probably going to have to stay at a friend's house, over 16, a hotel maybe? If it's any consolation, I had something similar happen to me. Your mum will see sense eventually. All the best.