Patience

By lovehaterelationship - 10/03/2014 18:43 - Austria - Graz

Today, I had to study for an important test but I could barely focus because my roommate had his music blasting at full volume. Since we get along well, I decided to put up with it. I just found out he forgot to turn it off and left over 6 hours ago. FML
I agree, your life sucks 43 889
You deserved it 12 936

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Why didn't you just ask him to turn off the music? If you guys were friends I'm sure he wouldn't mind.

thejewishfuhrer 17

While I understand your mindset for putting up with the loud music, it couldn't have hurt to ask him to turn it down, considering the two of you get along well. Then you might've realized that he wasn't home 6 hours ago, so YDI.

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Ins0mau 20

17 - The "woe is me" is that he didn't realise his roommate was away and that he could just turn it off. So he put up with it for nothing.

doglover100 28

Asking him to turn the music down wouldn't make him angry at you or hate you.

politeness comes and bites u in the ass.

No wonder you get along well, you're afraid to do anything. Good relationships include honest communication. If he had been home with the music blaring for six hours--being a dick--you would have been okay with that?

If you would really get along well, you could've just asked him to turn it down. This is not what I would call getting along, so YDI for not speaking up for yourself.

How does one "forget" to notice music at full volume while leaving?

I know you don't want to rock the boat but there's nothing wrong with going to your roomie and asking politely if s/he'll turn the music down. And if you see he left without turning it off--how do you "forget" to turn off blasting music?--you can turn it off yourself. YDI for not at least trying to get some relief while you were studying.

hoosiergirl94 31

How do you forget that you left on music blaring?