Good, you're dating a man who knows how to put a bitch in her place.

God, my boyfriend would never do that. And I'm American. So is he. So shut the **** up. On one hand, he shouldn't just assume that you want what he wants. On the other hand, just jerk him off then get him to hold your hand. No big deal.

Is it bad that ive done that lol. Though if they didn't want to touch me there i wouldn't exactly fore them i'd give them achance to take thier hand out. if you didn't want your hand down his pants just take your hand out. but why would you not want your hand down there lol.

Word of advice. Run for it. Now.

My boyfriend totally respects me but he'll do playful things like this sometimes. If I said I didn't feel like it he wouldn't get mad at me or anything. We're just always all over each other and have a lot of sex...I say it depends on the situation. If your bf is making you uncomfortable, which he obviously is, tell him that you find that disrespectful. If he gets angry about this or refuses to quit then drop him.

To DanceOnTheEdge: Our boyfriends have something in common. lol. I understand why this is an FML. Sometimes we just wanna hold their hand- like after you haven't seen them for 6 weeks and have a 7 hour car drive together. However, your life is not ******. It's either something you enjoy or you don't- you're in the mood or you aren't. Next time propose he returns the favor. He may be more willing than you expect. Good Luck.

You deserve it for not knowing that holding out your hand is the universal sign for "do you want a handjob?" :P

well at least you know that he is turned on by you and he wants you ahah :]

Soooo your life is ****** because your boyfriend wanted to be sexual with you? Oh yeah. **** your life indeed. -eyeroll-

I dont see the problem here