Reasonable dude

By Anonymous - 03/04/2020 02:00 - South Africa

Today, my fiancé told me that he expects me to agree to quit my job to cook and clean after we get married, or he will not show up at our wedding. He earns minimum wage and my salary is 17 times higher than his. FML
I agree, your life sucks 2 910
You deserved it 569

Same thing different taste

Top comments

That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. He's an idiot and you should call off the engagement.

Fickle 6

He’s a dumbass. You are too if you go through with it.

Comments

Marcella1016 31

17 times higher? Depending on where you live, and assuming he works full time, that means you’re making at least a couple hundred k a year! You must be an executive or something. And I mean logically, that is just such a crazy bonkers expectation he had that he MUST have been kidding, right? ...Right? Please tell me he was kidding!

bl3ur0z3 17

You make 17x minimum wage? Over $123/hr? Over $250k/yr? Then you can afford a psychiatrist to help you work through why you're settling for a man who wants to hold you back in life.

Min wage in South Africa, where it looks like OP is from translates to ~$1.05 an hour. OP would be making 17 times that, so just around $17.85 an hour

Alai 14

Such an idiot! Just leave him!

It appears you make around $300k a year. Why are you dating someone who makes so little and wants to control your household's finances? And with your high-value talents, I wouldn't be surprised if your cooking and cleaning suck.

thatkorean 5

Run. He obviously can’t handle your success and will make you miserable in the end. Don’t settle for someone who expects to control you.

And sooo you laughed..... right? You could hire a cook and maid and just kick him out.

God Lord! Please tell me you’re NOT going through with this!!

WistayShlaio82 13

Wow, you fell in love with a winner.