I've never read it myself. From what I read about it though, it sounds like an abusive relationship rather than just a kinky sex fetish? Bit of spanking is always good though... poor OP ;)

There is no feminism involved when I say consider breaking up with him. He handled something that should be fun very poorly. He discounted your needs, and he threatened you. Only you know his tone - if he sounded like he was joking about punching you in the face, he needs to work on his sense of humor. If he sounded angry, it is a warning sign, and anyone who discounts this as 'feminism' doesn't know much about what an abusive relationship is.

40- if you think 50 Shades is bdsm you don't know much about real bdsm. 50 shades glorifies an abusive relationship which just so happens to include kinky sex. As a collared sub who has been in the scene for a decade now I can tell you that book gets so much wrong. If you want to understand real bdsm check out the writing on places like The Iron Gate, don't rely on badly written fan fiction.

Hahahahahahahhahahahahahahajhajahahajahahhaha sounds like something my boyfriend would say. Clearly, just messing around. He woulda slapped my ass immediately.

Why is everyone giving such stupid advice. IT'S CLEAR he obviously wasn't in the mood to head her voice

Sounds a bit sketchy to me

Well that escalated quickly....maybe he really doesn't like being told what to do

Dude needs to chill before things get too hot

LOL !

This just had me laugh out loud....while waiting to get interviewed for a job.