If you can honestly say that you nhave regular, passionate and intimate sex with your husband and he has no cause for complaints, then FYL for his immature attitude. If you are no longer attracted to him and aren't talking about it, but are instead resorting to a machine all the time, it's a little bit your fault. If you deny him sex for any sort of power play, it's more than a little bit your fault. Sounds like you two need an open dialogue about sex.

I don't know why men get threatened by sex toys, but my ex-bf was initially jealous of my ****** because he was afraid of being replaced/that I'd like them more. I thought that was the silliest thing, because while toys feel good, nothing replaces an actual human being. Also, for those of you saying OP should just let her husband please her: you do realize that some people have an incredibly difficult time getting off? Some clitorises aren't very sensitive, so that's where toys may need to come in to the equation for any sort of satisfaction to happen. I'm speaking from experience, here; none of my partners have ever been able to get me off, and not for lack of trying. If OP has the same issue, it's really horrible of her husband to hide her vibrator. FYL, OP; your husband needs to grow the hell up.

Well maybe he actually wants to get some too. Don't withhold from your husband and be won't have to take your shit

Who are you guys to tell her she can't have some fun by herself? For all we know her husband could occasionally ********** too.

cant he give you what you need?

Time to check his butt?

why do you have a vibrator if your married?

it was probably up his ass haha

Yeah, maybe you should use his penis instead...

I thinkyou have narrowed down the places where it could be to one. So let me ask you, when you touch his hip does your hand vibrate?