Smooth talking

By ...thanks honey - 18/08/2010 06:23 - United States

Spicy
Today, I put on my new sexy lingerie to get my husband in the mood after work. When I walked into the kitchen where he was reading the newspaper, he eyed me and simply said, "Honey, please, your stomach is the biggest turnoff ever." FML
I agree, your life sucks 54 621
You deserved it 15 055

Same thing different taste

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KVKdragon 26

comments like that make me wonder why men say that. does the man want sex or not?

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steggunekoms 0
drew1978 4

Wow, just Wow. So da husband is a dick and da wife is a fatty. Regardless of da situation, da hubby probably shouldn't have said she was fat because of da extreme sensitivity women have for their figure, which they would probably blame on men in da first place. However, I do believe some of da people that commented here got it right. if your wifey or hubby got too much chunk comin out their sides, or front, or back, you should say something, just don't say how turned off you are by them cuz that will possibly just lead to other things. Your Welcome.

I really hope that you weren't born in 1978, or English isn't your first language If neither is true, that's just pitiful. -.-

drew1978 4

With your excellent English you have baffled me to da point that I have no idea what you are saying to me. Congratulations!

well find another man. I'm available

I know that there are other reasons that the stomach could be a turn-off, but I'm going to go ahead and assume it's a weight issue for this post. A lot of people are saying that marriage is for better or for worse, that the husband should love his wife regardless of her weight, etc. Where in the FML does it say that the husband doesn't love her anymore? He's just not turned on by watching his wife strut around in lingerie that shows off her unattractive stomach. Personally, I don't think anyone should be expected to have sex with someone they don't find attractive. Was it a mean comment from the husband? Yes. There are definitely better ways to bring up the fact that the wife may need to lose weight. But the fact remains that it's hard to have sex when you're not turned on at all. I've seen couples who were fit and attractive let themselves go after marriage. Putting a ring on it doesn't mean you have a free pass to stop going to the gym and start eating chips until you've gained 50 pounds. If they're both fine with it and are still attracted to each other, whatever. But like some other posters have said, you should work out and stay attractive for your spouse, and they should return the favor. Also, I'm glad that society has realized that not all women should be anorexic/stick-thin/look like Kate Moss. It's unhealthy. But you know what's also unhealthy? OBESITY. There's nothing wrong with curves, but I think it's wrong to tell an obese woman that she's "beautiful the way she is."

katee6 0

Someone said that they liked me cause i was super skinny like kate moss. I really don't want to be anorexic skinny-y

so wat. u just can't work it quite rite. no big.

RedPillSucks 31

Slap him in the face with the insides of your thighs.

How do we know she's obese? Maybe the guy is just asshole, actually he probably is.

UpYoursInAdvance 0

That's ****** Up.... How Manu times do I have to say it, people (Husband And Wife) get married for a reason and should obviously love one another for what's on the inside... BTW, Swing by my way cause I'm "Big Nasty" and I love me some big girls

Put less effort into what you wear and more effort into staying fit. Athletic girls are hot no matter what they're wearing.