Some friend you are

By Used - 02/01/2025 03:00 - United States - Miami

Today, I had to give back the Christmas present to who I thought was my best friend. He asked me to be his girlfriend and I declined. Apparently, because I don’t feel the same way he does, I don’t deserve it. I was under the impression that he’d given me this present to be a friend, not to get in my pants. FML
I agree, your life sucks 450
You deserved it 159

Same thing different taste

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Keep it. Gifts given under sus reasons are not owed back to them.

d j mom 8

I'd have kept it and told him to grow up, this isn't high school anymore. a gift is not a bribe.

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Keep it. Gifts given under sus reasons are not owed back to them.

d j mom 8

I'd have kept it and told him to grow up, this isn't high school anymore. a gift is not a bribe.

I think it showed integrity that OP gave back the present - They were not obligated to do so, but it was the right thing to do under the circumstances. A gift, especially a very valuable gift conveys an expectation of reciprocity - Not necessarily a sexual encounter but it still conveys some degree of obligation. Returning the gift when that's unwanted is wise... We don't know if OP and the person interested in a romantic relationship were a victim of miscommunication or just different expectations from the relationship. It's unfortunate that wasn't clear before the gift incident.