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By nevergonnatrust - 18/11/2010 09:23

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Today, I found out that while I see a therapist for my trust issues, my husband sleeps with our nanny. FML
I agree, your life sucks 45 592
You deserved it 3 622

Same thing different taste

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mms1021 0

umm I wouldn't be calling him my husband anymore.

I would then be seeing a therapist for anger management!

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schwancy 2
crazyin321 0

WHAT? She was going to therapy! It's not exactly like she can take them with her, you nob. And maybe the (ex)husband has unreliable shifts, so they had someone hired who is garaunteed to be there.

schwancy 2

I'm simply implying that had she been the one taking care of the kids this whole nanny-boinking bussiness wouldn't have happened. In this case hiring a nanny was a bad plan, and perhaps to avoid future incidents (should she decide to stay with her husband) she might want to take care of her own kids.

Please, stop talking crap for the sake of humanity. If this whole nanny-boinking bussiness wouldn't have happened, than the whole coworker-boinking thing would have happened. Or the whole sexy neighbour-boinking thing. Or the whole beautiful stranger-boinking thing. The problem is not the nanny, it is the husband. So, if she wants to avoid future accidents, she might want to divorce.

RAHDINAHISAWESOM 0

that's so true your kid should always with you cuz if you people actually take care of your kids and care for them none of you parents will get dumped in a nursery home in the last years of your lives when you would like to spend them with your grandchildren...

Rahdinahisawesom - Full stops...learn to use them.

ladybugobgyn 0

seriously? people are going to blame op for childcare? nannies can be much cheaper than daycare, when you have more than one. not everyone can afford to be a stay at home mom. some people worked hard for their education and work outside the home. so does this mean that any woman with children shouldn't work? seems like these comments are trying to hold women back and repress equality between the sexes.

MuchDance90s 0

Some people need to work. Some people want to work. Sometimes, those people are women. Sometimes, those women have children. Children who have fathers, usually; fathers who could also be held under the microscope of judgement! One can adequately "care for" a child while also maintaining an outside job. And someone NOT having an outside job is no guarantee of any quality of "care"! You don't even know how old the child is! Not that it should matter but the child could be 9 years old, requiring after school care and pick ups and drop offs, etc! How long does a mother have to stay at home in order to be a "good" mother?

karmaslave 5

How about the husband mans up and takes care of the kids while she's at therapy? He obviously has nothing else to do if he spends that time doing the nanny. What a silly little bitch.

As a separate issue from this husbands problems I think that's very true. I know way too many people who were practically raised by the babysitter / nanny/ daycare center and now they have almost no relationship with their parents. I used to run private daycare out of my house.... most of the kids I took care of had a better relationship with me than their parents.

Can you say revenge ****? Find someone and go to town.

when will people learn to hire unattractive nannys?

The better question is, when will guys learn not to **** around on their wives? Our nanny is quite attractive, and yet I haven't slept with her because I love and respect my wife. And because I respect our nanny, who is a wonderful, caring woman who takes excellent care of my child.

FYLDeep 25

Lol, you make the nanny sound like a **** by giving that as the reason you're not sleeping with her. Not that she wouldn't totally be up for sleeping with some married guy that she works for.

Seriously, who wouldn't want to sleep with me? I'm an Adonis!

FYLDeep 25

Count me out. It's not you, it's me. I'm just not into guys...

when will people who don't have children learn not to comment on how to raise children?

ladybugobgyn 0
MuchDance90s 0

When they have children. Which means "never", because then they are placed out of that category.

maybe it's because you said no when he wanted you to wear that skimpy maid outfit?

How did you figure that out exactly? and look at the bright side at least you know you have trust issues for a reason.

FYLDeep 25

My body aches from mistakes Betrayed by lust We lied to each other so much That in nothing we trust

Megadeth reference. Nice. We were almost honest. Almost...

TempestRain 0

then leave his ass! what a douche bag!!!

he is a genius hahaha but seriously men are not like women, It's one switch on/off that is it, you wonna keep your man you gotta take care of that switch or someone else might in a weak moment lol

RedPillSucks 31

Most people who cheat do so because of their own issues, not because their partner isn't satisfying their needs.

Bullshit. He can flick his own switch.

tboudre 0

So, is the therapy doing any good? if so, I could send my wife.