Divorce! Nobody should put up with a cheater - especially one who makes youfeel like YOU are the bad paranoid one.

I'm sorry. But this is ******* hilarious. Divorce.

FYL.. sorry to hear that u r husband is a loser

Well i guess you can trust your instinct then. My best friend just left his wife because he was tired of her being jealous, spying on him, following his every move, phoning all the time. He calls her crazy etc. This woman is really unhappy, she doesn't trust him at all. But actually, even though he is not with another woman every time she suspects him to be, she's totally right not to trust him, because he does lie to her and see others behind her back from time to time. But this woman is stupid in a way, because she knew from almost the very beginning that she couldn't trust him and still stayed with him, because otherwise she'd have a much less comfortable life. So now, the choice is yours: either you stay with him accepting the fact that he ***** around (and say goodbye to the days when you had a pride) or you leave/kick him out.

the only way is divorce

oh grow up you lot. you don't divorce a husband for cheating. a MAN is for the WOMEN. and yes I am a woman

maybe you picked a really sexy nanny:O. Bad choice. well, for you... not your hub.

Lol. Maybe you don't have trust issues after all.

well atleast the nanny isn't charging you extra for that service she does on your husband!! p.s. you should have swallowed

Sounds like trust is not the issue and your husbands fidelity is. At this point you need to decide if your family, kids etc is worth continuing to try and work this out or if it would be better for you and the kids to simply end the relationship now and move on with your life. If this is not the first time he's done this then I think you should leave now.