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By ohfuckwaffles - 29/01/2013 05:28 - United States - Bremerton

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Today, after much self-doubt and awkwardness, I learned that I look amazing in a little black dress. Now I have to figure out what I'm going to tell my wife. FML
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ohfuckwaffles tells us more.

ohfuckwaffles 6

OP here. Thanks for the support, everyone - I have told her, and, while she's definitely not into it, at least she doesn't plan to leave me over it. To those of you wondering whether I'm a transvestite, a crossdresser, a transexual, or transgendered - there are waaay too many of these names, and it's confusing. How about I explain it this way: I'm a girl on the inside, and I'm still attracted to girls (a lesbian, perhaps?). I don't mind my body, and I don't mind wearing men's clothes (heck, it's what I grew up with), but I'd like to see what more is out there... I've been hiding it and ignoring it and thinking I'm wrong for a long time, but my control is obviously slipping.

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Palirose 22

I have to say...I was NOT expecting that ending. I was expecting the FML to end with something about ruining the dress or some sort of self esteem issue. Lol

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twiztedone 19

Just come out wearing it! You never know it may get her excited!

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NOACCEPTANCE772 21

You are a transsexual. So are my. You get 100% support from my side! :)

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galefrog 3

Tell her you bought a strap on. You wear her stuff, she wears you!

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f2_fml 8

cool girlfriend...not trying to pry...but do your parents know?

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kalbrek009 20

My mother in law didn't have such an issue with her now ex husband wearing dresses....it was when his ***** fell off the shelf in the closet (landing on her foot) that made her decide it was time to divorce him so he could dress womanly & date other men (which is apparently what he wanted all along), but maybe even he didn't know @ the time he married her.

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NewFire911 5

perhaps you don't look as good in it as you think?

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withasmile 3

If it was just a 'fetish' and just about wearing a dress, that'd be easy for your wife to deal with. Unfortunately, it's much more complicated than that when you 'feel like a girl on the inside' and if your wife isn't 'into it' but supportive - get counseling please. And be prepared that although she may both love and support you, she may not be able to do that being married to you. Attraction, relationship dynamics, roles etc, etc can all become very complicated when one partner has gender issues. She has needs too, and love isn't always enough. Best of luck to you both.

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