Do whatever feels right, OP. Full support from this random stranger!

Well OP you have your wife's support, so don't listen to anyone else and just own that shit.

Be whoever you're meant to be, don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

Be true to yourself, OP, but be true to your wife as well. Don't lie to her, okay? You're both better than that.

If it's who you feel you really are then it is not wrong. So happy your wife is so open minded and I hope things work out for the best. Remember to always pursue what feels right. So rock that LBD! :)

You have every right to do what makes you happy! It's not harming your health or anyone else's, and if you look fabulous in a little black dress, rock that shit! Everyone has a fetish or whatever you might call it, and no one should look down on you... I just have one question... how well do you walk in heels?

Hey there...good luck with it, I hope you discover who you are. You might want to consider therapy with someone who specializes in gender issues in order to sort out your feelings. I'm not an expert by any means but the "girl on the inside" comment suggests to me some level of being transgendered. Plenty of trans-women are attracted to women; I'm not sure of the statistics but it seems like more transwomen are attracted to women than to men. Again, a good therapist can help you sort all of that out. Good luck and I hope your wife remains supportive!

Do whatever makes you happy. Forget labels, you don't owe anything to anyone. Spend time figuring out things out for yourself, rather than worrying about what other people think. It doesn't matter what gender you identify as - wear what you like, do what you like, date who you like. Just, in this case, look out for yourself first.

You do you, and do it well man.

Congrats, OP, on being able to tell your wife and not hide it anymore!

You Sir, have got an awesome wife!!

go you :3 I wish my boyfriend wore girls clothes -sigh- but he couldn't get them off me. I'm a cross dresser, so we share clothes.

I think you're right; sounds like you're a lesbian that got the wrong chromosomes. Good luck, I hope things go well for you.

OP, you are your own person. Seeing you live that out is probably giving a lot of people hope in this cruel world. Just be yourself.

You my friend need some serious help, I'm sorry to say this but it's true. Everyone knows red would be a better look! But who am I to judge? Congrats on the wife being beside you on this, sounds like a wonderful woman.

*many hugs* Good luck with everything. :) And it sounds like you're either transgender or transsexual, since if you were just a cross-dresser/transvestite you wouldn't feel like a girl. As someone else said, you might wanna see a therapist or counselor to help you feel better or something and stuff. I'm phrasing this terribly, but either way, I very much wish you well.

Y'know what? If that's what you're into, you wear that motherfucking dress and you look awesome in it.

The term you want is probably lesbian trans woman. Good for you making the jump. I hope everything goes well with your wife. Now go be awesome.

You don't have to label yourself. Be happy with who you are.

Let me help you. Got a dick? You're a male. Problem solved.

I figure that guys that like women's clothes do so because there are more kinds of fabrics, colours and styles so they can be more creative and expressive. All my shirts and pants are men's XL and usually dark. Due to my job and coordination issues, I trash my clothes. I could never wear a little black dress - I'm too damn big!

#186 all evidence suggests you are a total *******. Please shut the **** up. OP - you just do you, you'll be ok!