YDI. "There was a bug on you," is such an overused excuse, who could blame her if she didn't believe you? Warn her next time. You don't need to play the hero and flick the spider off her yourself. "Hey, you've got a spider on you." Not that difficult.

# 25 is right! You tell a woman there is a spider on her and she's gonna freak out! You eliminate the situation and she should be mature enough not to claim sexual harrasssment on you. Lame chick. Sorry, dude.

#21 says the spider was on her shoulder quite clearly. Also, harassment implies a trend, and sexual implies, well, something sexual (who'd have thought?). Dictionaries for everyone!

Legally you are protected. If you thought you were helping her from a potentially dangerous situation then you did nothing wrong. Also flicking a spider off of someone's shoulder isn't sexual harassment. As long as she doesn't lie and say you were copping a feel of her breasts or something shes got no shot. At worst the people in your office may look at you funny.

That was just a stupid thing to do. You don't touch a woman without expecting her to do that! You should have told her that it was there, then see what she wants you to do.

she's being a hard ass, you could've saved her life, your a hero in my book

Oh well, welcome to "equality in the work place". Seriously, though, what a bitch. I mean sure the guy shouldn't have done that, but getting him fired? The only reason he should have been fired is a pattern of unresolved instances.

I hate stank broads like that. She should get hit by a bus...well, did you really have good intentions? you sure you weren't in the womens locker and you were hiding when you noticed the spider on her nipple or something? hmmmm. But if you had good intentions you should be good. Good luck. Send me a picture of her so that I can avoid her if she's in my state...lol

its not harrassment/rape if you yell suprise first!

This may come as a surprise to you, but girls are not guys. You don't just touch someone.