use your words my friend

you should have told her, but still what a ****

People will accuse people of anything these days... + Next time You should just let the spider on her shirt go all up in her mouth

Even though I understand people saying, "You should have told her," I know a LOT of people that if you say "There's a bee near you" or "There's a spider on you" they will start FLIPPING out, saying "Get it off me! Get it off me!" while flailing around. So if someone has had previous experiences like this with others, I could see it as reasonable to want to address the problem as quickly as possible before the person's aware of it, and then explain afterwards.

Personally, I'm petrified of spiders. Even if I didn't believe you, I think I'd prefer thinking someone sexually harassed me than thinking of a spider on me. But if you told her the truth (maybe pointed out the spider that was now on the ground), and she still pitched a fit, then she's just a bitch who probably deserved to get bitten. But I would thank you, if it were me.

That's crazy, she took it too far with the sexual harassment for brushing the spider off of your shoulder. Unless you're creepy to begin with...

I think the key word here is that you "gently" brushed it off. Meaning, if she didn't know the spider was there, that would be a little suspicious. Future reference, make a big scene out of getting the spider off, so that it's obvious what you are doing.

you should have just told her there was a spider on her shirt

#15, I'm a girl. And 107, you took the words out of my mouth. If someone told me there was a spider on me I would flip a shit. I'd rather someone get it off of me, I don't care WHERE it is.

FYL. I'm a girl, and if I had a spider (or any bug for that matter) on me I would ask you to get it off asap.