How disrespectful of them. Perhaps you need to have a talk with your son and husband about what is not okay and what is. And I think a grounding is in order for both of them. FYL OP.

Maybe if you and your husband raised raised your son better he wouldn't spew profanities at you, much less be so disrespectful.

I would have hurled the basketball at his face when he is asleep that night.

YLS for getting shoved too hard, for your son's comments, and for your husband's reaction, but you earn a YDI for calling your son an idiot. Be a better example, mom.

Maybe your next activity as a family should be counseling.

Grounded for life.

I would have smacked the shit out of both of them and given him a reason to call you a bitch.

I'm sorry, but you're calling your son an idiot, then FMLing when he disrespects you? Kids reflect their environment. If your son treats you this way, maybe think about your own approach towards him. (And to be fair, if your husband is laughing at this, it's sending a message that it's acceptable behaviour. You both need to have a talk about it.)

While that is wildly rude, it's also funny as heck!

You raised him to talk this way or you allowed your partner to?