By sandra - 05/02/2016 01:01 - Norway - Trondheim
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I responded the same with some other ex boyfriends... they all said the same "eww no". Duh! Why do they expect for us to agree?
I don't think its fair not cause of fair play or what not but because you do things in the bedroom to please you and your other, or your suppose too. If you don't want anal then just say no, he didn't force it on you. But simply cause you asked to **** him too doesn't mean he also has to be along with it. You should respect each other and your sexual preferences
What the hell is wrong with you? It is so not the same thing for a girl to like anal and for a guy to. This was clearly your ploy to get out of it. How manipulative of you. **** HIS life.
Yeah, it's not the same thing, the guy's more likely to enjoy it since it massages his prostate whereas a woman has no particular erogenous zones up there. Why should someone be especially scared of anal as a man? Afraid of being emasculated or afraid of being gay? One is misogynistic, the other is homophobic. The boyfriend is hypocritical for thinking that anally penetrating his girlfriend is okay but being anally penetrated himself is not- drawing attention to this hypocrisy is not manipulative, it's simply stating the truth. Also, if she needs ploys to get out of sex or certain types of sex, she's being abused. In order for a relationship to be healthy, both partners need to be able to simply say no to any sex act they don't wish to partake in without consequence. Otherwise there's rape and sexual abuse happening. Women are not sex dolls to be used by men in whatever way they wish. Women are allowed to have opinions and agency over what is done to our bodies. We are not obligated to perform any particular sex act.
you sly dog
He sounds like an asshole. (Excuse the pun)
Wee I understand him having anal sex with but what r u gonna get from anal from him eeewww
Any girl want to do that w/me? Biggggg fantasy??
my girlfriend said the same thing xD
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I tried to do that to my ex and being the asshole that he is he gave me a bunch of excuses why it wasn't fair play.
Ha! I always say this too. Some guys may actually be genuinely into it, but most only want it because most girls DON'T want it, so it's a "challenge". I just don't understand how you can ask someone "Hey, I know you have a hole literally designed for a penis that you actually enjoy having my penis in, and I like that too, but I'd love to put it in the hole you have that's NOT designed for a penis, so it'll really hurt you, and won't give you much pleasure at all. Plus we may get shit everywhere. Literal shit. Sound good?"