That's awful, burner. But I'm sure you would agree that deleting the bloke from her friend's list wouldn't have done anything. I don't understand the massive logic fail on the part of OP's bf. Deleting someone from an account doesn't delete them in real life, FFS.

I agree that wouldn't have stopped her, and I don't feel it's right in any way to control someone like that. she did what she did because she chose it. I'm better off now without her :) on a side note for the OP, when your parter expresses extreme paranoia like that, it usually means they have a fear of being caught in the indiscretion they have committed.

More often it means he's trying to isolate her so he can control her.

a_bors. I was not referring to the fb deletes, that I agree he's trying to control and isolate. I was strickly talking about his fear of her cheating.

Yes, but trying to "stop" your partner from "cheating" is a controlling behaviour. You don't own her. She can **** whoever she wants, it's her body and her right to use it however she pleases (so long as she harms no-one of course). The same goes for you, you're a free man and no-one can tell you what you can and cannot do with your body. If you're a good lover and a good husband and a good match for your wife, you shouldn't have to worry about "competition" from other guys anyways.

then ******* dump his ass or your as goddamn retarded as the OP

If your boyfriend won't "let" you do things, he shouldn't be your boyfriend. That's straight up controlling and abusive, it's a huge red flag. Today he's controlling your social circle, tomorrow he will rape you because he's "entitled to you", the next day he will murder you because he "can't stand the thought of anyone else having you". That is if you don't get him out of your life and do it now. Be as aggressive and direct as possible. Send him an email; "I do not want to date you anymore, I want nothing to do with you. You're a psychopath. Do not try to contact me in any way. If you do, I will defend myself with all the necessary force. If I see you on the street, keep on walking without incident. Don't be stupid. I am armed, I have no qualms about making you suffer, and the law is on my side. I am not someone you want to **** with, so get out of my life and get out NOW."

wow, you are as stupid as the OP..no, wait even more stupid and more retarded...and you have no one else to blame but yourself...i really don't get why would you stay with that kind of guy....someone please explain...