#64--Actually you WERE saying EXACTLY that it's basically a friendship if there is little sex. Going back to your original comment, you specifically talked bad about people only having sex once or twice a month. That would be little sex, not no sex. How about YOU understand your OWN point so I don't have to spell it out for YOU. And maybe you misunderstood me when I said some couples don't depend on sex meaning they show their love in other ways, TOO. (Meaning they do have sex, they just don't feel like they constantly have to have do it to prove that they actually love each other).

ahaha, sorry to hear that, but i really love my sleep so i don't blame her.

She was tired. Get over it.

Monica of course you have a healthy sex drive if you are 20 years old. Come back in 20 years i doubt you will be thinking the same thing. Not that i know from experience, i am also 20 lol but yeah.. anyhoo.. OP just go on a date with Palmala Handerson to hold you over.. xD

Someone earlier said it's SELFISH and RUDE to not have sex with their partner if they want it. Isn't it SELFISH and RUDE to try to force it on their partner, if their partner doesn't want it?

#70 is totally right :)

@ 66 this is from the post where i said that: "um, no, you cannot have a good adult relationship without sex. sorry. without the physical part of a relationship, it's not a romantic relationships. you're just friends." saying WITHOUT refers that they never have sex, and that is exactly what i meant. this was speaking to another issue than this FML is about. it is not my fault if you cannot understand what 'without' means. learn to read before trying to agrue, please. and @ 70 i never said that he should force or rape her. duh. isn't it SELFISH and RUDE to make your boyfriend listen to you all the time if he doesn't WANT to?

no, because relationships NEED communication, whereas people can go until they're married to have sex and be just fine. besides, if you're with your partner JUST for sex, then you're using them.

no, they will not be JUST FINE. why do you think so many people get divorced? waiting until marriage is NOT a good plan but that isn't the point here anyway, considering this FML is about a married couple. so while i could continue to argue this point, there would be no point in arguing it, considering it doesn't apply to this situation. besides, i think you failed to read my comparison. there would be communication. there would just only be deep communication twice a month. apparently, that's alright, if the boy doesn't' FEEL like listening to his wife or girlfriend whine and bitch about her life, considering it's alright for her to only give him sex when she feels like it. sex, for most men and some women, is more than just a physical connection, but also an emotional one. denying sex to a male is almost exactly like denying a woman time to whine and bitch and talk about the relationship (even though it isn't necessary to do this every day) and who said anyone is just with their partner for sex? where did is say emotional connection didn't count? i never said that. just because i said sex is necessary doesn't mean that nothing else is.

you people stil havent gotten over it yet jesus!!! okay so she was tired and wasnt in the mood to have sex the guys that keeps saying that hes not good at having sex how the **** do you no that have you hav butt sex with him or somethn jeez and btw whoever said that is rude not to have sex with someone or something like that i bet you havent even had sex and your problay like 40 or something haha 40 year old VIRGIN haha!!!