Sounds like childish arguing here. Guys don't take hints, can't tell what women want, BUT if so much as the wind "blows" we get excited...mad or not. Best comment yet was "be direct" and don't try suggestions...we "yes, ALL of us" need instruction... Not dumb, just dense.

Oh Lord, gotta love the oblivious!

I was hoping this would end up as him being beyond unserious and start singing "so take off all your clothes".

His first name does not happen to be Bill does it or by any chance his last be ingval. (I think that how you spell it

A lot of women prefer subtle hints vs obvious. From my experience they don't want to feel they have to draw you a map. Either find someone that does draw you a map or step it up.

he at least shows consideration

Perhaps, he knew exactly what he was doing... You're taking off your shirt, saying it's getting hot, he puts on the fan because, he knows that it's only going to get hotter... when bodies start slapping and do the wild thing.

You know guys aren't always in the mood right? We do not want to **** 24/7.

To everyone saying be direct: What she did was practically the most direct thing she could have done. Maybe he just wasn't in the mood. Gasp, it happens with guys.

It would appear that you've trained him too well.