You gave up your virginity after 4 months?!?!?! 1) Sex, in the simplest form, is for reproducing. It feels good so people will reproduce, otherwise our civilization would crumble. 2) At one time, sex was suppose to be for married couples. I am very aware that society no longer hold sex to those standards, but having sex after four months because you believed and told him you loved him is immature. I acted that way in high school and thought I was in love after four months, which wasn't so at all. It, in the end, is a judgement call. What he did was silly and makes him appear immature and disrespectful. #67, as a female I think it is totally just to hold one's virginity to a standard. I plan on only having sex with one man in my life, that man being my husband when I get married. Call my old-fashioned, but that is how I was raised. I want to save sex for marriage to make it meaningful, not just some fling when I am in high school (not implying that is how you are). I think it is partially out of respect to myself and my husband. But that is just me.

I love how everybody is bashing this poor girl about something she obviously feels terrible about. Do you really think that's going to keep her from doing it again? You're just bringing down and obviously insecure person's self-image. Way to go people. OP: Tell everyone that it wasn't you, it was with another dude. Or his cousin. Or both.

Maybe he loves you so much that he's been talking to all his friends about how excited he is about getting to sleep with you. So he sent that to all his friends to let them know it finally happened. Also, sex feels good. **** puritans and their morals.

After he pulled out? No condom? lol, enjoy being pregnant, ****.

#125- I get what you are saying but uhm I think 2 years and 6 months is more than "puppy love" by now.

aww, #18 had his feelings hurt and now he's skeptical about everything. how pathetic. Sex and love do coexist. You just gotta be ready. Which shows your bf obviously was immature.

oh my god. this happened to me too. except i wasnt a virgin, he was, AND i cheated on my boyfriend of a year and half for it. and it was soooo bad (the sex)... FML

So what? What is wrong here?

YDI mmmarie you cheating ****. (What did you expect from a virgin?)

You had sex with him BECAUSE you told him you loved him? What a ridiculous reason to lose your virginity. You know, you CAN love him without having sex with him. It's not like you have to do both at the same time.