you and your husband both deserved it!!!!!

I doubt he's telling you the truth. He is more likely telling you this just to be a jackass. Don't beat yourself up.

Don't worry. Kharma's a bitch, perhaps this new relationship of his will end soon (if the girl finds out what a jerk he is, it surely will!) and he'll be alone anyway.

Sounds like someone I know. If they're anything alike he'll move on when the next big thing comes along.

You probably should have picked up on that, and either done something about it to make the relationship better, or realized and accepted that it wasn't going to work out. You wasted your time with him because you were self-absorbed and inattentive. YDI. It was a learning experience and I wish you better luck in the future.

Move on.

Same thing happened to me. No lie. Three and a half years. he left me because I was too dependent. He had no alone time and now he's always with his new girlfriend.

Wait a min... if that's you in your avatar I'd make for damn sure you're not alone tonight! Tomorrow? Different story.

omg! i had the same thing hap to me a few weeks ago. TOTAL FML

Damn that sucks sorry