All the people saying that he cheated because the OP didn't respect his boundaries, are more than likely the same kind of individuals who would use such a lame excuse to cheat on someone. If the husband had any common decency he would have told OP that he didn't feel the "connection" anymore and simply ended the marriage and go their separate ways. Instead of choosing to be devious.

Punch him in the baby makers. Twice.

That sucks hardcore

I'd say finding out he's cheating is just a little worse...

Question. Although it's a good thing you found that out. How would you feel if your personal privacy was hacked?

FYL that your husband is cheating on you but YDI for snooping in his private things....

Am I the only one who thinks she's a psycho stalker bitch with no life?

I'd like to say that 'investigating' is justified if you're inclined to believe he's cheating on you, but some peoples idea of 'I think he's cheating' are different than others (read; totally ridiculous). Considering he WAS obviously cheating on you, I'm guessing your case was justified. So, wow, that sucks, i'm sorry.

Little Nosy one aren't you It's possible the password was from before he met you?

Moral of the story: leave his shit alone