By Anonymous - 13/12/2009 07:22 - United States

Today, I finished moving cross-country and signed a 13 month lease to be closer to my on-again / off-again boyfriend of the past five years. I showed up at his place to borrow his truck just as his "local" girlfriend was leaving. FML
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RoadGoesOn4Ever 0

I'm the OP. I originally moved away from him to finish my degree/get my Masters. We've been on and off because he runs private security for the government and spends the majority of his time overseas. I signed a 13 month lease because I wanted to live in a house and I have two big dogs. He was all for me moving out here. Long story short, IMO: the situation blows, we're over and done with, and I have an awesome new house/job in Vegas.

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never move in with your on again/ off again boyfriend! It is a disaster waiting to happen!

kinda of a stupid thing, the move closer to a guy whose on-again/off-again. I'm guessing your desperate, or you don't know your self worth.

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You deserve it for not talking about it with him first.. unless you did and he agreed to it, then **** your life, but I highly doubt you did. either way it's your fault for dating a guy across the country for 5 years before deciding to do something abuot it

That's what you get for leaving everything behind and taking all the risks for an unstable relationship. I hope it'll never be "on" again this time. YDI and FYL for spending five years in this joke.

BikerMike 0

A five year on again off again relationship should tell you somthing. You were either too dumb or desperate to figure that out. I bet this guy will string you along for several more years before you are smart enough to figure it out.

What exactly did she think he was doing during the "off" time?

It amazes me how dumb people can be. On again, off again = give up! Geez.

OP, YDI for many reasons already stated by others.

Let's say...We all have long term goal and short term need.

Wow he sounds like a keeper.... As stated by everyone else, if it's off/on again relationship you don't move for the relationship..

Wooow. Yeah, on-again off again-boyfriends you DO NOT move in with or near to. YDI- have fun with that 13 month lease ;D