By Liferuinedforever - 14/05/2013 07:13 - Pakistan - Karachi

Today, I found out I'm actually the uncle of my children. All four of them. FML
I agree, your life sucks 110 454
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That's absolutely crushing. I feel for you, OP.

Atleast you're something to them FYL

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lil_g501 2

I think that would justify murder.

brittyed 11

Your wife is just the worst. I'm sorry OP. To the kids you're still their daddy and I bet you still love them the same. This being said, if you do divorce that *****, keep in contact with your kids. They're the most important part of your life.

I think his brother is the worst. His brother is the first person who should be there to support him if he finds out his wife cheated, not the one cheating with her. What a bastard.

PiNkMoOn 9

That is totally ****** and my worst nightmare that my kids aren't mine. Fortunately they are but you need to leave her and get the father to support them. So sorry for you.

theangryone11 5

Maybe some people won't agree, but personally I don't think he should have to take care of children that aren't his DNA. Just as a woman has a right to her own body and when she has children, A man has an essential right to procreate and spread children that have his DNA. He should not be forced to be cuckolded and take care of children that are not genetically his. His entire efforts would be for nothing- his genes don't pass on- and his resources and time go to something that isn't his. Just as women say "men don't give birth or get pregnant, they have no right to talk about abortion"- I also believe women have no right to talk about whether a man should stay or not, because WOMEN CANNOT GET CUCKOLDED. A woman KNOWS her child is HERS not someone elses. Therefore she has no right to tell a man what to do in this situation, IMO. Anybody who says "awww good job OP taking care of them, the wife was a bitch but keep it up :)" are basically saying "we think you are genetically inferior OP, and although it sucks, you should get over it and take care of kids from a superior male". I don't think that's right at all. OP should divorce his wife, use his proof to stick the wife with the children and she can take care of them. If the brother who had sex with her cares about her, he can also take care of them with her. If not, she can get welfare from the State. In any case, this man should go forth, be happy and find a wife who loves him enough to let him have her children instead of sneaking behind her back. I wish you the best bro. Nothing is worse than a man's #1 goal in life- pass on his genes- being thwarted by some conniving, cheating, lying b*tch and then the community trying to force you to raise kids that aren't yours. I'm not about that. That's that sh*t I don't like!

I absolutely agree with this. OP's wife is a cheating, lying bitch and she should be made to deal with the consequences of her actions. While the children shouldn't suffer because their mother is a cheap ****, he shouldn't have to continue to support children that aren't his, unless he makes the decision to do so. Welfare doesn't provide enough for children these days and it's wrong that the children should be punished for being born into a ****** up family. Make the brother pay child support, they're his offspring. I'm so sorry that you've been hurt and lied to OP. He's known those children as his own for so long, he may decide that his love for them is stronger than the feeling of betrayal. But maybe not. I hope he finds peace and happiness, but I agree that her betrayal can't be swept under the rug. And OP's brother... man, what a ******* prick, right? Who the **** sleeps with their brother's wife... at least 4 times!? Thundercunt twatwaffle, that's what that guy is... makes me so angry when people are so selfish and cowardly that they'll cause pain and suffering to those they supposedly love, just for sex and cheap thrills.

78: You smell like a troll so you probably are a troll, but just in case you aren't, I'd like you to know you are an exceptionally heartless individual.

But mentally he might not be able to. If he spent years and years loving these kids, he's might not be able to just suddenly have no emotions for them. It's a very complicated situation.

Even though the wife is a heartless bitch, those kids do not deserve hate from the man they thought was their father. It will take time to endure the pain knowing that they're not his kids. And I'm sure that OP and the children love each other deeply. The mother and OP's relative are responsible for all the pain.

harrisoncohix 5

I'm from Pakistan, and since its a Islamic country, cheating happens very rarely.

clue_me_in 20

Screw your "brother", if you even want to call him that. It may be hard to do, but you should still try to be in the children's lives if/when you end up leaving your cheating wife. You deserve better.

Thank you for taking the time to post that on FML. I mean, you do have some spare time now HAHA

SnarkyKnight 2

Come out to America friend. I'll show you how to forget that cheating bitch