I remember my younger sisters going through the 'sex ed' part in 5th grade, where they sit them down for a couple hours (separate classrooms for each gender) and told them about puberty. One sister came home sobbing because she was convinced, from this talk, that she absolutely HAD to use tampons and was absolutely terrified because she heard from her friends that using tampons meant you're not a virgin/had sex/hurt/etc. The quality of sex education in quite a few parts is abysmal.

This is for all the idiots on this thread. OP's daughter isn't pregnant, she was terrified she was after masturbating with the shower head. Do you guys need me to dumb it down even more?

This is why Americans should not breed. They are the cancer of the earth

Please don't shame her for masturbating. There's nothing bad about it. It['s good for her to know her own body. She should have already known how one gets pregnant by at least 11 years old. You don't "wait for her period." Anyone who does this is cruel. No one should have to learn what that blood is about by surprise. Ever see the movie "Carrie?" They need to know at least by 11, possibly sooner.

I learned about sex in 2nd or 3rd grade because someone had sex in the school's jungle gym and left some clothes, beer cans, and a used condom behind. How I found out? When I enquired about what had the teacher making a fuss, the other kids called me stupid saying 'you don't know what sex is?' There was the sex ed. class in 5th grade, but either I or my mother forgot about the permission slip, so other kids told me about it. In all actuality my parents never told me what it was. When I was 14 the word virgin came up in a movie. (didn't know what that was) When I asked my mom about it, she gave me a look and asked 'do you know what sex is? They're people who never had it.' That was my family's sex talk. (For the next few years I actually wondered that if sex was such a big deal why not make a business out of it. Yeah.) So my awkward teenage years of listening to other people talk about sex is how I learned. So I'm a big believer in sitting kids down at a certain age (junior high or freshman year) and explaining these things. So I'm going to kinda say YDI cause leaving it alone and expecting things to pan out is bad. My biased opinion. (Though I will give you masturbation probably doesn't come into any real sex talk)

How is it OP's fault that her kid is dumb enough to think she can get pregnant from a shower head? OP probably thought that it was safe to assume that she didn't need to have the "having sex with anything other than a penis cannot get you pregnant" talk. To me it seems like the daughter just wants attention and is willing to get it in any way possible, and at thirteen she probably is curious about sex, so she thought it would make sense.

I couldn't imagine being in her shoes thinking she's was about to tell her mom she was gonna have a shower head baby ! >.< lololol

Bad parenting or bad genetics, either way, its at least 50 percent your fault, unless she's adopted.

Naw, op. It was really her brother...

Well maybe it's time for you to sit her down and have a real sex talk and then gift her with a vibrator.