By Anonymous - 12/02/2011 05:19 - United States

Today, I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. I texted her and I would never talk to her again, but I accidentally sent it to my other best friend, who responded, "I'm so sorry, I never meant for you to find out." My two best friends cheated with my boyfriend. FML
I agree, your life sucks 62 364
You deserved it 4 770

Same thing different taste

Comments

roghelio919 0

well if you would have been handling your business he wouldn't be looking for it elsewhere! FYL

dannyfont 5

you suppose to share everything with your friends. don't be selfish

icadragoon 11

Dump the boyfriend, he's just as horrible as your two best friends. Also like stated above Karma's a bitch, I've had "friends" do shitty things to me and they've always gotten theirs in the end. Keep your head up.

icadragoon 11

Back in Egypt when there where Pharaoh's people would drink wine and have orgies, so I wouldn't exactly say sex was always sacred. Everyone has their own lifestyles, some have no problem sleeping around, others want to wait for the right guy. I didn't wait for marriage, but if someone else does it doesn't effect me, and they should do what feels right to them. I only make love to someone I care about on that level, so to me sex is sacred. Culture is a big part of whether or not sex is seen as ok or taboo, that and religion, but I'm not even touching that one.

perdix 29

Good thing you didn't accidentally text your mom! BTW, I don't mean to get all Grammar Nazi on you, but you don't know the meaning of "best."

Second that. Everybody is a "best" friend now if they share the most classes or like the same television shows. The language has gotten so hyperbolic that it's lost meaning.

perdix 29
perdix 29

ImFoe, I'm old and was starting to get those warm, squishy feelings when you said "I love you" to me until I realized I was using the obsolete, old-school meaning. By today's standards, "I love you" translates roughly to "I think I might make the effort to remember your first name." XOXOXO (which now means, "Hey, let's play some tic-tac-toe (or naughts and crosses, as the Brits might say)!"

I meant the new, new school meaning of "you calling me awesome means you're mildly amused for a nanosecond by my comment so I will reciprocate in kind". Isn't that what everyone means when they say that?

perdix 29

Yes, ImFoe, It's so sad that so many words in the English language are loosing their power. ;)

Tsk tsk, perdix. "Loosing" -> "losing" Bad Grammar Nazi, bad!

#38 what in the world makes you think people weren't sleeping around as much "back in the day"? What day was this? It's an odd urge people have to nostalgically paint the past as so much better but do a little research and you'll find that not a damn thing has changed.

you should not only blame your best friends but also your soontobe exboyfriend since he not only cheated on you but also with both of your best friends.

I'm pretty sure best is a singular being. Do you just go around your my bestie no your my bestie! You sound like the dude from the Hangover. Were the three best friends that anyone could have. Calling them your best because your needy and clingy does not make it so.

Or maybe they were actually both her best friends. It is possible to have two best friends. And OP, I feel really sorry for you :/

Technically, no, you cannot have more than one "best friend". "Best" implies none better. If there are two "best" then they really aren't that great anymore. Though I suppose in OP's situation, that might be fitting.

joa76 3

Really, you don't think two people can both be "best"? What if, say, you're taking a test in class and two people get 100 on it? They BOTH got the best grade. Or what if you're running a race, and two people finish at exactly the same time and tie for first (admittedly, this almost never happens)? They BOTH ran the best time. So if you have two people who are always there for you, whom you've been friends with for a really long time, why SHOULDN'T they both be your best friend? Think how many examples there are in the media of groups of friends, where there are three or four people who are all (more or less) equally close to one another. True, they often have one person they're more close to, but not always. It seems to me most TV shows and movies involve groups of three best friends. Lizzie McGuire had Lizzie, Miranda, and Gordo; Buffy had Buffy, Willow, and Xander; The Jersey had Nick, Morgan, and Elliott (I think?); Wishbone had Joe, Sam, and David (yes I am picking rather random examples, I know); or even (if you want to include "fake friends" examples, which I feel are still valid, since they're still technically each other's best friends) Regina, Karen, and Gretchen on Mean Girls (I was going to include Clique, but that's four). I could probably come up with a hundred examples. It's in books, too, and not just new ones. What about Mary, Colin, and Dickon in The Secret Garden? Romeo, Benvolio, and Mercutio in Romeo and Juliet? Groups of three close friends seems to have been common for a really long time. Plus, friendships shift, and people are often reluctant to admit that their former best friend isn't that close to them anymore. I grew apart from my best friend from elementary school in junior high, but I still called her my best friend for a couple years. Sure, in retrospect we stopped being best friends around 6th grade, but 8th grade me didn't want to admit that, since we'd been best friends since kindergarten. In this case, of course, neither one of the OP's "best" friends is really worth the title.

97 "We're the three best friends that anyone could have"