By heartbroken - 10/07/2013 19:08 - Australia

Today, I found out that my boyfriend of over a year has been cheating on me the whole time, but that "it's just physical". However, he doesn't want to do anything "physical" with me, except cuddle when we're together. FML
I agree, your life sucks 52 034
You deserved it 4 723

Same thing different taste

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Did you straight up, break up with him? Cause hes an obvious douche.

You mean ex-boyfriend right? Don't worry there will be other guys who are caring. They want to get physical!Physical!

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Ask him if it is physical enough when you knock his bloody lights out or cuddle the shit out of him.

If he's not that into her then he should have broken up with her instead of cheating on her.

challan 19
Wowxoxo 17

#48 that's plausible because OP never said he was cheating on her with a girl!

OP here. haha it wouldn't hurt so much if it was with a guy. I can't help that one. But sadly, it was a girl.

challan 19

OP, I'm so sorry. Perhaps he views you more of the mother type instead of lover type. You need a real man. He's out there.

nnnope 26

93 - because people romantically cuddle with their mothers all the time. pretty sure he's just an asshole. I'm really sorry OP. :( you deserve so much better and I hope you have rid yourself of him now. he's not worth another second of your time.

At least it isn't a cuddle with a struggle! (rape for those who haven't seen the meme)

Oh, it was "just physical"? Yeah, that makes it better. I swear, sometimes I wanna punch these people. Kick the heck out of him OP.

pinguino3669_fml 23

It's people like OP's ex who cause the majority of the world's problems.

KiddoKS 19

20... As much as I hate cheating bastards, I find it hard to blame their extracurricular activities for global economic instability, poverty, armed conflicts between nations, etc. That really did "escalate quickly"

pinguino3669_fml 23

I see your point haha. But it's that "I can do whatever the hell I want, as long as I don't get found out" attitude that can lead to actions that cause local, or national, disturbances. A mischievous state of mind doesn't exactly lead to good places.

Guys like that are the reason it's so hard to gain a woman's trust these days. I hope you kicked him to the curb faster than yesterday's trash, OP. Let him go think it's okay to treat some other girl like that and see where it gets him..

Yeah, wow. What a **** face. I'm sorry :(

Wow, dump the loser. What a quality person right there.

Angelrose2004 17

A year is a good bit of time to waste on somebody. But at least you know now, so you can get out and find someone better. fyl, OP.

Really? Like him saying "it's just physical" is going to make he situation any better. "Oh, well if it's just physical, it's perfectly okay." Your boyfriend, or hopefully ex-boyfriend, is a complete and utter douchebag.

OP here. Thank you! It doesn't make it any better. It doesn't make it less cheating even if he was just using her to "get off" and with no attraction between them at all.

I agree with #23. After all a punch in the nuts is only physical right? No real harm done!

olpally 32

How about you physically punch him in the nuts. What a dick ******.