I'd hate to say it but anyone wanting to keep you a secret even after a couple of months is hiding SOMETHING. or doesn't see you as long term. sorry. you're way better off though. and that 19 year old is prolly just using him.

YDI, you should have suspected something if after 7 months he still wants it to be kept a secret. It would be obvious that he's either cheating or you're as ugly as you sound, personally I believe it must have been for both reasons.

Out of all of the YDIs I have read on this website, this one has the dumbest reason yet. First of all, how do you know that she's ugly? She could be attractive but a shallow guy like her ex could think that she wasn't supermodel pretty, therefore not showing off their relationship. Second of all, even if she is ugly, HOW IS IT HER FAULT? SHE CAN'T HELP BEING BORN A CERTAIN WAY. Her boyfriend was an asshole, just like you, who thinks that beauty is the only important thing in a relationship. Obviously he didn't really care about her personality, and instead focused on if her ass was too big or her face wasn't gorgeous or something. I hope that when you are old and alone with no one to love you (because who would EVER love such a SHALLOW BASTARD like you?), you can realize that women are not just something to look at and exchange once they aren't pretty enough anymore. I am sick of all this shit from people like you who think that it's a woman's fault for a man being an absolute douche bag and man *****. No woman deserves to be treated like a piece of shit. Rot in Hell, umwat, because you truly deserve it.

How do you NOT see that coming? What are you, 11?

YDI for letting him use you while someone else uses him. YDI for being someone's doormat. YDI for making someone your priority while you are their option. On the other hand everybody plaus a fool sometime. Sorry it was your turn.

YDI for not suspecting anything after being kept a secret for SEVEN MONTHS. Come on now, use your brain.

how old are youu?? cuz youu must be olderr than 19 since youu put the girls age in.

The whole 19 thing doesn't really do anything if we don't know how old you and your boyfriend are. I would have said no to this FML if I were moderating. And really, is your self-esteem so low that you would date a man who wanted to keep you a secret? You should have dumped his ass after a month and a half at the most!

Do you happen to be dating Jon Gosselin, by any chance?

#24, I was thinking the same exact thing. That sounds like something that douche bag would do.